Scott Peterson loved his wife too much to harm her, his family and in-laws say.

San Jose Mercury ^ | Posted on Sun, Jan. 05, 2003 | By Lori Aratani and John Woolfolk

[It's me]

And women who don't complain one bit about their husbands usually are facing problems they either don't want to discuss or acknowledge.

Oh please! We don't argue because my husband can't stand to be angry. It was hard at first, but we are married -- going on 22 years. We still don't argue. I never talked bad about my husband with my girlfriends. Sure there are things I could have said, but why? What would the point be? They all seem so dissatisfied.

[jacquej]

I agree, mama. I remember once, just after we moved to a new community, a couple of the ladies from church invited me to a bible study group. They seemed quite nice, and I accepted.

Turns out the Bible Study was bitching about their husbands, infidelities, etc... and when they all turned expectantly to me, eager to hear my tale of woe, I really didn't know what to say.

Certainly I get my husband's nerves at times, and he has some little quirks that could be called irritating, but I never complain about him to anyone. First, unless I am without fault, I have no right to criticize him, and if I did complain about his foibles, I would't be without fault.

I would be humiliated and embarrassed if he complained about my flaws to others, so why would I want to do that to a wonderful husband and father to my 4 children. It isn't a good way to build a happy marriage.

I have a hard time believing that Scott could have fooled everyone. I am more worried that someone kidnapped her in hopes of taking her baby, and that she will somehow escape or be found.

If Scott had nothing to do with this, how he must be suffering.

[homeschool mama]

***I would be humiliated and embarrassed if he complained about my flaws to others, so why would I want to do that to a wonderful husband and father to my 4 children. It isn't a good way to build a happy marriage. ***I have a hard time believing that Scott could have fooled everyone. I am more worried that someone kidnapped her in hopes of taking her baby, and that she will somehow escape or be found. ***If Scott had nothing to do with this, how he must be suffering.

In agreement with all three points you've made, jacquej.

Have a blessed evening with your family.