This author is very much a he and he seems to refer to his partner as his husband.
What I found striking about this article is that it acknowledges that conservatives were right all along. Of course, then it proceeds to blame them for not winning the argument over the objections of those, like himself, who fought us tooth and nail.
Interestingly, he doesn't mention what his own position was at the time. I'm sure he mirrored those of the gay community.
He writes like a stereotypical woman, too (emotional and blaming others).