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This is a reality slap in the face.
Women need to learn that getting married and having babies is what it is all about. Do it young and live those good years in your forties and fifties. Do NOT live the good years in your twenties and thirties then expect to get the husband and babies in your forties.
Take it from someone who married late and started babies at 37. I am tired and my body has gone to pot. Thank God I found a good husband who understands and not one who wants the young shallow chickies. He is also secure in what he needs. The young bodies go to pot after a few years but no one will spoil him like I will.
Someone once said, marry an older woman, she is more grateful. I appreciate my marriage.

Someone once said, marry an older woman, she is more grateful. I appreciate my marriage.

True enough, my wife is only 2-1/2 years older than me, but she's not afraid to be a woman. She says she's constantly amazed that I'm not concerned about her body (stretch marks, some sagging, etc.) but many of us men actually look at the whole package, of which the body is a relatively insignificant part if what's in the head and heart is good.

I agree with you. Many women I know in their 20's and 30's feel they have to "have a good time, stay single and just have fun." While this may be fine for some, the majority I know end up miserable because before they know it they are in their late 30's, still single, childless and having a hard time finding a husband.

Women need to learn that getting married and having babies is what it is all about. Do it young and live those good years in your forties and fifties. Do NOT live the good years in your twenties and thirties then expect to get the husband and babies in your forties.

Pearls!

Women need to learn that getting married and having babies is what it is all about. Do it young and live those good years in your forties and fifties. Do NOT live the good years in your twenties and thirties then expect to get the husband and babies in your forties.

It is unfortunate that the young ones are having babies...with out a husband to help! Society is pushing sexual freedom. Speaking from a Man's point a view. I find it very noble of a man to take a wife that has another man's child! Most men do not want an instant family. My brother is divorced, 3 times, each woman had children prior. He had no say when it came to discipline in HIS own home. Because the children were becoming unruly, he kicked them out. Now, I know this can be faulted to the mothers side for not respecting my brother, but I am not talking about "submission", I am talking about LOVE. Love is a verb, not an emotion. It's what you do for someone, not how you feel. That's infatuation.(No Rod Stewart lyrics please)

Take it from someone who married late and started babies at 37. I am tired and my body has gone to pot. Thank God I found a good husband who understands and not one who wants the young shallow chickies.

I think you're being at least somewhat shortsighted. Starting early can mean other aspects of life are unfulfilled. It is the mid-life reckoning that some early dreams aren't going to be realized that often leads to the crises and divorce. Your glass sounds more full than empty.

Young, shallow chickies? You mean we have to talk to 'em? I thought that was what duct tape was for.