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Richard Chamberlain Has Been Married For Twenty Years (To a Guy)
TV Guide ^ | 5-30-03 | Mary Murphy

Posted on 05/30/2003 7:58:18 PM PDT by dogbyte12

Richard Chamberlain sure knows how to keep a secret. He's a master at it. In the public eye for over 40 years, he has been defined almost entirely by his roles. On screen he was this devastatingly handsome heartthrob, the star of Dr. Kildare and the dreamy king of such exotic miniseries as Shogun and The Thorn Birds. Yet Chamberlain remained a distant figure whose private life was always off-limits. Until now.

In an interview with TV Guide, Chamberlain admits that he's gay and that almost 20 years ago he wed another man, Martin Rabbett, who is now his manager. They met in 1975 when Chamberlain, then 41, was starring in the Tennessee Williams play The Night of the Iguana. Rabbett was a production assistant 19 years his junior. On the eve of the publication of Shattered Love: A Memoir (ReganBooks), Chamberlain, now 69, talks about his fear that knowledge of his sexual orientation would ruin his career. It is the first time a romantic leading man of his stature has ever outed himself. But in doing so, Chamberlain says he is finally at peace.

When you were on Dr. Kildare, you were a romantic hero — and hiding the fact that you were gay. Were you afraid people would find out?
Desperately afraid. I used to get chased by hot teenage girls. I got 12,000 fan letters a week. And all the fan magazines would ask me about my love life. And I felt somewhat besieged. But I was good at the game. I felt my career depended on a certain image.

Were you ever able to talk to your parents about it? Never once. Not in my whole life.

Anybody in Hollywood?
No. But it was assumed that I was gay. I remember going to see a comedian who worked on our show — maybe he didn't know I was there — and he made a joke about "Dr. Kildare, that blond faygeleh." Whoa. Was I shocked.

After Kildare went off the air, you went into a funk.
I realized I was just another out-of-work actor. So [the musical] Breakfast at Tiffany's came along. I had a great time until we were on Broadway. The audience just hated it. I had a line, "Oh, I'll never sing again." And voices came back, "Good. You can't sing, anyway." And then people would go up the aisles and leave the theater.

Luckily, you found the miniseries. Tell me about Shogun.
The network wanted me, but James Clavell [the author of the novel] didn't. He wanted Sean Connery. So I started taking voice lessons to get a lower tone and I put six T-shirts under my shirt because I wanted to look bulkier [for the first meeting with Clavell]. It was so hot I was sweating like a pig. But I got on with April, Clavell's wife, and Clavell relented and gave me the part.

In your book, you say the character you identify with a great deal is Father Ralph, the priest in The Thorn Birds.
My public image, my private life and then my spiritual concerns made me realize that we had something in common.

In fact, it was after a spiritual retreat that you met Martin.
The minute I saw him, I thought, "There is someone special." But it wasn't until Night of the Iguana played [on Broadway] that we got into a love relationship.

How many years have you been together?
Twenty-six. I can't imagine how Martin had the guts to live with me because my career was everything. There was no one I would have thrown my career over for. And he knew it.

What are you up to now?
I am doing a play this summer, The Stillborn Lover, which Martin is directing at the Berkshire Theatre Festival in Massachusetts.

Can you sum up your career?
I had looks, talent, ambition. And yet I was afraid of relying on myself — Marlon Brando could rely on himself. I didn't want to be seen as even remotely gay. Remember, I grew up in the '30s, '40s and '50s, when being effeminate was verboten. I ingested all of this. I was as homophobic as anyone else.

When did you get over it?
I've only dropped the last vestiges of that, like, three months ago. And I'm practically stepping into my grave.


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: downourthroats; gaytrolldolls; hollyweird; homosexualagenda; homosexualsodomy; mediabias; pc; politicallycorrect; sodomite; thereisnogaymarriage
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To: weegee
PS: I guess some people just forgot to ask the government for permission to live their lives. I think you can get over it.
81 posted on 05/30/2003 10:04:00 PM PDT by breakem
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To: breakem
Can you show me scripture in any religion that embraces homosexual marriages?
82 posted on 05/30/2003 10:04:08 PM PDT by weegee (NO BLOOD FOR RATINGS: CNN let human beings be tortured and killed to keep their Baghdad bureau open)
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To: breakem
I guess since they played doctor with each other (and he was a doctor on tv) that he was really a doctor too?
83 posted on 05/30/2003 10:05:08 PM PDT by weegee (NO BLOOD FOR RATINGS: CNN let human beings be tortured and killed to keep their Baghdad bureau open)
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To: weegee
Not my intention to show you anything from scripture. These women don't follow your religious beliefs. Why should they and who are you to expect it?
84 posted on 05/30/2003 10:05:42 PM PDT by breakem
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To: weegee
re 83, uh, I think you are confusing acting with reality.
85 posted on 05/30/2003 10:06:39 PM PDT by breakem
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To: breakem
You tell me that it depends on what god you believe in. Then you cannot support your argument with any citation from any religion.

Buh bye.

86 posted on 05/30/2003 10:06:56 PM PDT by weegee (NO BLOOD FOR RATINGS: CNN let human beings be tortured and killed to keep their Baghdad bureau open)
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To: breakem
Does a doctor need to have a diploma/certification or can someone claim to be a doctor because he acts like one (on tv or in private)?
87 posted on 05/30/2003 10:08:01 PM PDT by weegee (NO BLOOD FOR RATINGS: CNN let human beings be tortured and killed to keep their Baghdad bureau open)
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To: weegee
Gee, you put up a challenge, answered it and then left. Maybe you can do a thread all by yourself, ok then, if that's what you want, C-YA.
88 posted on 05/30/2003 10:08:04 PM PDT by breakem
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To: SkipLethal
"KUrt Cobain claimed that EVERYONE is gay..................."

And that begs the question, why would anyone listen to someone who blew his brains out because he didn't have the courage to live?

89 posted on 05/30/2003 10:10:33 PM PDT by blackbart.223
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To: weegee
Now I'm really confused, you said goodbye in 86 and then gave another reply in 87. I understand your confusion, but you'll get over it. These women have no intention of trying to convert you to their religion. In fact, I'm sure they think this is a free country. Uh good night, I guess.
90 posted on 05/30/2003 10:11:30 PM PDT by breakem
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To: Incorrigible
He was the priest in "The Thornbirds" too. He's a good actor, for sure. I've always liked him and thought about most actors in the "don't ask, don't tell". I could care less what they do in their private lives.
91 posted on 05/30/2003 10:13:40 PM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: dogbyte12
"Shogun" was a masterpiece. I still remember it vividly. Much better than "Roots". I'm glad the old fag didn't come out until now...shows he's got some class to just live his gay life without shoving it down our throats, or attacking the boy scouts like so many others have in the past 10 years.
92 posted on 05/30/2003 10:15:18 PM PDT by montag813
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To: Hillary's Lovely Legs
"All the women loved him."

All us guys loved Rosie and Ellen too, not to mention K.D. Lange, and Hillary,we were devastated to learn that as guys, we had no chance with them at all-"NOT!"

Get over it ladies-Kildare just don't care, and a Rock is cold as ice. If Libarace was not gay, then no man has ever been that way-no real man that is. If being a normal man is offensive to some-to hell with such fools, and may God spare our families from contributions from such gene cess pools.
93 posted on 05/30/2003 10:16:09 PM PDT by F.J. Mitchell
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To: dogbyte12
SPOTREP
94 posted on 05/30/2003 10:16:34 PM PDT by LiteKeeper
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To: A_perfect_lady
Wow. Guess we know what Shepard Smith's gonna look like in 30 years.

Is Shep a fag? Or just a maniac driver?

95 posted on 05/30/2003 10:17:03 PM PDT by montag813
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To: weegee; longtermmemmory
Shemp, Sam Shepard, and Shepard Smith are gay?
96 posted on 05/30/2003 10:17:06 PM PDT by freebilly (I think they've misunderestimated us....)
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To: my_pointy_head_is_sharp
Who is Shepard Smith? I've never heard of him.

You apparently don't watch FoxNews much?! :-)

Smith is this guy:


97 posted on 05/30/2003 10:18:41 PM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: Hank Rearden
That's your opinion. I thought Shepard did a great job during the war with Iraq.
98 posted on 05/30/2003 10:21:25 PM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: PLMerite
Nobody can say anything bad to me about Rock Hudson. I LOVE him. I don't care who he schtupped...I can look at him for days. I can watch Giant every day and never tire of looking at him.
99 posted on 05/30/2003 10:22:25 PM PDT by Hildy
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To: weegee
Does a doctor need to have a diploma/certification or can someone claim to be a doctor because he acts like one (on tv or in private)?

Run, don't walk, to the nearest Blockbuster and rent "Catch Me If You Can," starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Hanks, which portrays the life of Frank Abignale Jr. True story about this guy who was a con artist at the age of 16+. He was on the lam for several years, and one of his "characters" he successfully conned was a hospital doctor. Pretty scary, huh?!

PS I REALLY like this movie, for a lot of different reasons. Amongst other things, the acting is really good, and John Williams did the musical score which goes full circle to his early composing days when he was doing jazz.

100 posted on 05/30/2003 10:24:59 PM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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