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Man Dying of Child Support Enforcement
Mens News Daily ^ | May 30, 2003 | Roger F. Gay

Posted on 05/31/2003 2:42:54 PM PDT by sourcery

The child support enforcement program is a disease that has probably caused more suffering and death than any other government program. It was introduced by Congress in 1975 and has been engineered into a weapon of mass destruction in the years since. Despite sound evidence of destructive economic, social, and political effects and repeated cases of suicide linked to insufferable conditions created by current practices, politicians and administrative representatives continue to satisfy themselves with less than convincing denials, a few false and misleading statistics, and the claim that "it's for the children."

Various protests have generally been ignored, even when they are so serious as to cause harm to protesters. Potential danger lies in a particular form of protest: the hunger strike. The problems with child support enforcement, which were internationalized during the 1990s, have been met with occasional hunger strikes in several countries. Daniel Chang, a Chinese immigrant, has been the most recent to stage a hunger strike in the United States. His strike began on May 15th in Piscataway, New Jersey. Dr. Chang holds a Ph.D. in computer science and has a professional job. Despite federal involvement based on a pre-existing federal involvement in welfare, this case has nothing to do with the public welfare system.

The federal child support enforcement program is not for the children of course. The money spent on children is just as green whether paid under state rules or through a federal program. The incentive is the billions of dollars that Congress spends each year to keep people interested. States receive "incentive funds" in proportion to the amount of child support collected. In order to maximize the amount of funds they receive, states enrolled as many men as they could and arbitrarily increased the amount they were ordered to pay. All payments are counted as "collections." Everybody in government understands the scheme. It's pork. It's a brand of corruption older than government itself. A prospective enemy was demonized ("dads"), and people were called to arms against them; pledging their money and loyalty to the cause.

My early introduction to the child support enforcement system included a case in which a chiropractor had been involved in a serious auto-accident that resulted in brain damage. He was unable to continue his practice, and his savings was eaten up by medical bills. The state enforcement agency echoed the prevailing political sentiment ? "There is no excuse for not paying child support," and began confiscating social security benefits in an effort to satisfy the very high payments that had been set in light of his previously high income. The crippled man was left without sufficient income to pay for rent and food, and certainly without sufficient funds to pay a lawyer to attempt to straighten things out.

The reason for such harsh measures is the federal funding system. States receive money in proportion to the amount of child support "collected." Taking away social security benefits may have been worth $10 a month to the state; a little bit toward paying the salary of the collection agent who was robbing him of his sustenance.

This is the system that Dr. Chang is fighting. It isn't about reducing welfare expenditure. The money he owed is for support of his daughter from his first marriage. She is now 20 years old (an adult) and studying pharmacy at Rutgers University. He also has a 12 year old daughter from his second marriage. A well-paid professional, the austerity of his home and lifestyle is testimony to payment levels that are out of proportion to caring for children. Someone in his economic position would normally be able to raise two children in reasonably good style.

That judges have become beneficiaries in the enforcement scheme, pay linked to outcome, is a direct attack on judicial independence and therefore our Constitution ? in effect, an attack against the United States. American colonists raised this same issue in the Declaration of Independence; complaining about the King of Great Britain and his manipulations of democracy and the rule of law. "He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries."

Dr. Chang has only protested once before. In June, 1989 he marched with others in New York City to protest the killing of peaceful protesting students and others by the Chinese government. The only pattern seems to be a loathing of government oppression. And this time it's personal. He has been jailed three times (once for 108 days) and has no drivers license due to child support debt. This represents two of the practices fathers so often complain about. Atop arbitrary, unjustifiably high child support orders, often the reason for debt to begin with, spending time in jail and being unable to drive make earning an income to pay child support (and support oneself) ever so much harder. The alleged success of such practices is really a few instances in which friends and family, who do not owe child support, have pitched in to pay debts. That led at least one judge to claim that the practices worked for him. By and large, the expanded practice has left tens of thousands of fathers without licenses and an untold number with unlimited jail time; often until debt is paid, with no way to pay the debt while in jail.

Dr. Chang's experience is one that has been repeated many times across the country over the past fifteen years. Sheriff's deputies literally kicked in the door to his apartment and arrested him at gunpoint - weeks after he had made necessary payments. Employees at the Middlesex County Child Support Department had refused to help weeks earlier after his employer had missed a child support payment and miscalculated another. His employer is charged with making payments after deducting them from his pay, a common practice since the early 1990s. Dr. Chang points out that his employer is generally cooperative with the agency, but had made errors after an end-of-year payroll conversion. He contacted the child support agency and sent the money himself, but that didn't stop the violent enforcement action weeks later.

Give me liberty, or give me death! Or as Dr. Chang puts it: "It is better to die once than live a thousand humiliations." Isn't this just the sort of thing that led to the American Revolution? Is it the kind of government behavior that led to student protests in Tienanmen Square? It's probably deeper than that.

The assault on a man's life typically begins with a mother who decides to "liberate" herself from marriage, simply dealing a father out of his own personal and family life. The process is exceptionally easy. The government has been dedicated to helping women "liberate" themselves from marriage for decades. Once extricated, women often move on to new relationships, taking his children, a portion of his property and future income with them. The engineering of a new life quite often involves keeping the old one (the ex-husband) at an extreme distance, totally disengaged from his own children.

The process and its effects involve the deepest emotions there are. But to that we have now added a government operation designed by people who are using the situation to steal. They're stealing money from these very same fathers, often making mere existence difficult. They are doing it in order to steal money from taxpayers who are paying for the system in proportion to the amount of money taken from fathers. Finally, as if that isn't enough, they're stealing freedom and even life.

Dr. Chang hopes to force a conclusion to his ordeal within one month of the start of his protest. If he can, he will eat again and return to work. He has two weeks vacation and has arranged for a two week extension. This defines his goal of ? in effect ? winning an argument within a month. His water and salt diet is dangerous, especially if it continues for long. Several people have met with him, and have encouraged him to stay alive. When he began his strike on May 15th, he weighed 166 pounds. When I last received an email message from him, May 28th, his weight was 16 pounds less - 150 pounds.

Dr. Chang has vowed to continue until his demands are met. They are as follows (in his own words).

1. I do not owe any money to ex-wife Yee-Sang Yen. 2. If I have a job, fair monthly support money will be sent to the child, Olivia Chang, directly without going through any child support department. 3. The Middlesex Child Support Department repairs the damage it caused to my credit, and informs the Motor Vehicle Services to erase all my driving suspensions and restore my driving privilege immediately. 4. The Middlesex Child Support Department reimburses me the following: $282 for restoring my driving licenses, the cost of repairing the door damaged by the sheriffs, $280 taken from my wallet, $20 for getting from the Middlesex County Court to home.


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KEYWORDS: fatherhood
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To: garbanzo
Oh you fool! Don't ya know? Women are supposed to be empowered, yet victims in the same breath! Go back and re-read your male-bashing 101 agian..

;-)

61 posted on 05/31/2003 5:57:23 PM PDT by Michael Barnes
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To: garbanzo
Sounds to me like you think the man has no choice. He is ruled by his hormones and therefore cannot make a choice. That is BS. It may not be an easy choice, but if a man wants to avoid responsibility for unwanted children then he needs to make the choice to keep it in his pants. And the best part, it is 100% fool proof.
62 posted on 05/31/2003 5:57:52 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: chiromommy
You need an adjustment- an attitude adjustment. Go back on over to DU and the NOW Nazis.
63 posted on 05/31/2003 6:06:28 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (Plus de fromage, s'il vous plait...)
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To: sweetliberty
But the woman has more choices than the man - that's what all the feminists tell us at least. If women want choice ("our bodies, our choice" sound familiar?) then with it comes responsibility.
64 posted on 05/31/2003 6:07:00 PM PDT by garbanzo (Free people will set the course of history)
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To: 666beast
"sounds like any man, any where, who for whatever reason, is separated from a woman with his kid...is a deadbeat.

lots of manhaters on the board today. bitter and vicious bloodsucking leeches. i hope they all end up miserable as they have tried to
manipulate a no-work life for themselves in this country."

I can add nothing you have said it well. Thankyou

best regards

the dozer
65 posted on 05/31/2003 6:14:34 PM PDT by dozer7
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To: garbanzo
Again, you are allowing the man to abandon any responsibility for his sexual behavior. And the NOW hag feminazis do NOT speak for most women. They certainly do not speak for me and never did. And male or female the choices are made BEFORE there is a baby.
66 posted on 05/31/2003 6:14:35 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: StatesEnemy
You do know that non-custodial 'Moms' are about 5 times more likely to be deadbeats than non-custodial 'Dads'.

Ohhh Yeah!!! Aint that the truth!! Try getting support out of her when she was originally given custody, then a few years later decides to shack up with some loser. Now the kids are in the way, so what's does she do? Gives the kids to the father to raise. Trouble is, the divorce decree still has her as the custodial parent. Now the father not only has to reopen the case, but then get the court to make her pay child support. Good luck with that one.

67 posted on 05/31/2003 6:18:58 PM PDT by YankeeReb
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To: Finny
it isn't always up to the groom whether or not he stays married to the bride.

If he picked carefully, and prayed to know he was choosing the right woman, this wouldn't happen. Divorce starts with the wrong engagement. If you buy a rattlesnake and try to treat it like a cat, you will be bitten.

But people want to be free to marry outside their faith, to marry for lust, or just to copulate with anybody drunk enough to go home with them. That freedom has a cost.

The same goes the other way. Quit calling me a male-basher. All fertile persons have a sacred obligation to the children they might have, to choose the other parent with all due care. I do however believe since men have the most to lose, financially, they ought to be more careful than they are.
68 posted on 05/31/2003 6:20:15 PM PDT by ChemistCat (3 Nephi 17:7-8)
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To: MeekMom
I see no redeeming qualities in such a "man".

And what about a woman who does the same thing? Why are the family courts so quick to hunt the fathers down, but deadbeat "moms" get off pretty much scott free?

69 posted on 05/31/2003 6:21:01 PM PDT by YankeeReb
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To: sweetliberty
"Again, you are allowing the man to abandon any responsibility for his sexual behavior."

My babe reel it in. Get a grip. The only responsible person is the Man. If you as woman are with out responsibility for your behaviour are you a good role model for a child or do you just wish to manage this miracle of creation as just a profit center. If I have read this wrong please help me through this difficult situation. Both parties can choose to keep it zipped. If your premis is true mine as a Male is the greater responsibilty. If so then as the more responsible partner allow me to take on the greater responsibility. Visit two weekends a month maybe once during the week and send me your money. I promise I won't get my nails done with your child support.

best regards

the dozer
70 posted on 05/31/2003 6:27:14 PM PDT by dozer7
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To: sweetliberty
>> Sounds to me like you think the man has no choice. He is ruled by his hormones and therefore cannot make a choice. That is BS. It may not be an easy choice, but if a man wants to avoid responsibility for unwanted children then he needs to make the choice to keep it in his pants. And the best part, it is 100% fool proof.<<

So here is the real test. If the woman committed fraud and just named the man to be the father, should he still be responsible for the child ad infinitem? Even through divorce and wife's remarriage to biological father?

30% of the children are not parented by the father they think they are. Only the women involved can perpetrate that fraud. Who should pay then?

Dk

There are women and men both that are evil and vile (anagrams). We need to take a step back and look at what we are doing. The least effective way of controlling a person is governmental. The most effective is personal.

The circles are expanded, according to the person and each level is progressively less powerful.

Personal
Close ties, family and close friends
Organisations church, cirle of friends, etc.
Local government
Federal Government
International fantasy governments
71 posted on 05/31/2003 6:31:30 PM PDT by Dark Knight
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To: ChemistCat
Time after time in this society, people hold big heavy buckets of liquid manure over their heads and pour it out on top of themselves, and then whine that gravity did it to them.

Agreed. However, there are women (since my experience is as a guy) that will act a certain way pre-marriage, then act differently post-marriage. It works the other as well, as I saw my mother's second husband go from charming charlie to hitler. But I married someone with two kids from a previous marriage, who are both now out of the house and on there own. I do however, have her father living with me, and has been since we were married.

In my instance, the wife is a totally different person than the one I married. We've been married for 17 years, and my son (biological) is 15. I've basically hung in there the last few years for his sake. I have a great relationship with him, but not her. I've been weighing whether or not to leave, but for my son's sake, I've stayed. What is a guy to do. Its not financial, because the courts can do whatever the hell they want to me financially, but its the impact on my son that matters most. In fact, I'm in the middle of writing the little wife a note, explaining what I'm feeling because she just won't have a civilized discussion of where things are, and what lies ahead. In my head, its an easy decision - bolt. I'd be so much more happier starting a new life, regardless of how it turned out. But I did make a commitment when we got married "to death do us part" (Petterson notwithstanding).

So, I'm 43 and looking at being miserable the rest of my life under the current situation. She is not likely to change, since her life seems to have put me 3rd on life's priority list (behind her previous kids and her father). What's a guy to do? Since I'm not quite finished putting my thoughts on paper, I'll take any sage advice any Freeper wants to give.

In the meantime, I've struggled with what to do, as my biological time on earth dwindles as every day passes....

72 posted on 05/31/2003 6:34:50 PM PDT by Go Gordon
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To: dozer7; TheBattman; Ahban; MHGinTN; nicmarlo
I absolutely do NOT believe it is all the man's responsibility. Read my post #37. What I was challenging was garbanzo's premise that it is all the woman's responsibility. It takes 2 to make a baby, and both have a choice. In the event that both make a bad choice then the responsibility, likewise, falls to BOTH of them.
73 posted on 05/31/2003 6:35:59 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: Dark Knight
There are absolutely women who are deceptive, although that is getting to be pretty hard to pull off in this age of DNA testing for paternity. And they are absolutely wrong to deceive, and NO, a man should not have to be responsible for another man's child unless he chooses to be.
74 posted on 05/31/2003 6:40:10 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: marktwain
Employees at the Middlesex County Child Support Department had refused to help weeks earlier after his employer had missed a child support payment and miscalculated another.

From first hand experience with these people this is a common thing. They'll screw up the process, after it's withheld from the guy's paycheck. Then, when the ex-wife calls them and complains, they come after him, hell bent on collecting money that's already been garnished from his pay. A very similar situation happened to me, when I called the Agency the response I got was "It's YOUR responsibility to see that your ex-wife gets paid on time." Never mind the fact that the money is garnished and sent to her before I even see it. A few years later I went to get a car loan, I found out they put "failure to pay child support" on my credit report. Loads of fun straightening that one out.

75 posted on 05/31/2003 6:40:19 PM PDT by YankeeReb
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To: cardinal4
Looks like she joined to get into the chiropractor thread. Lots of long posts there.
76 posted on 05/31/2003 6:41:29 PM PDT by gitmo (THEN: Give me Liberty or give me Death. NOW: Take my Liberty so I can't hurt Myself.)
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To: gitmo
My point to her there was not all of us are deadbeat dads. Some of us even pay our child support! To hear her tell it and others on this thread, anyone who has had their childs life dictated to them by a family court judge is a low life loser who deserves what he gets.
77 posted on 05/31/2003 6:44:20 PM PDT by cardinal4 (The Senate Armed Services Comm; the Chinese pipeline into US secrets)
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To: Go Gordon
You can hang in there 3 more years. That's all I would say you owe anyone. Get your son started in life, then get your own back. But you do owe him that; you already know that, obviously.
78 posted on 05/31/2003 6:50:21 PM PDT by ChemistCat (3 Nephi 17:7-8)
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To: chiromommy
"They are nothing but DNA donors and don't deserve the love of a child..."

Amen to that!

79 posted on 05/31/2003 6:54:07 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: buccaneer81; netmilsmom; dorben; Finny
Hey, we're all shaped by our experiences. My experience with this issue overrides any of my political leanings, which happen to be predominantly in line with Free Republic (Christian, Pro-Bush, Pro-life, proud to be part of the radical right-wing conspiracy). I never expected to find this type of discussion on here... Personally, I define a deadbeat as any parent who physically, emotionally, or financially has no regard for their children. So all of this talk about money is only part of the problem. I agree totally with those that say this issue can only be solved in the home, marry the right person, etc., but what about abuse, abandonment, etc? Raising kids alone is not easy -- that's why God made our gametes haploid!!!

Rant begins:
I guess I get my dander up when I hear all of this "poor dads" stuff with no mention of what the moms go through raising these kids on their own, with no money and no help. Those parents who have to pay the other parent AND raise the children are the ones who have really been screwed. It's real easy to sit at the computer and judge others when you haven't been there. OK, so maybe I'm a little bitter about being a single mom divorced from an abuser who pays 10% of his income in child support, but buys a new house, truck and camper?? And, despite being an abuser, still gets significant time to torment my children? There are lots and lots of good dads out there, I just don't happen to know more than a couple! But I do know a lot of divorced moms who have issues like mine, with no help from the court.
Rant over.

I've heard the stories about people who abuse the system, or were screwed by the system, but isn't that the problem with government intervention in our lives in any case?? Nobody wins, life's not fair, the children are the ones who suffer. I suppose I agree with everyone out there whose real problem is with the Family Court system, who can't seem to see past the end of their benches. Or should it be the lawmakers, whose codes and rules the judges follow? So much bitterness, so many targets, and no solutions in sight...
80 posted on 05/31/2003 6:56:31 PM PDT by chiromommy
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