[sonserae]

I'm really sorry...but when you do meet that great girl who has the morals/ethics/character you do, you will appreciate her all the more. If you lower your standards, you will attract lower standards. Keep your standards high, get emotionally healthy and you will attract the same. You will attract what you project.

[Cordova Belle]

#127 and 128

Both of you are to be commended for the thoughtful, patient responses you've given to chookter. I know I wouldn't have done so well. You have "spoken the truth in love," and I hope that chookter, who has experienced a terrible situation, will receive some healing in this--and weigh seriously what you've said.

Very well said.