Unfortunately, as I didn't anticipate having this discussion with you, I've not made photocopies or saved bookmarks about those stories. However, as you're the one who's posting statistics and stories that have been publicly refuted, it would be incumbent upon you (and your credibility) to look into it and make sure you know the whole story.
Bug Chasers and the Thought Police (This particular one debunks the debunkers.)
Barebacking and bug chasers: expressions of an HIV subculture