Posted on 09/14/2003 7:25:59 AM PDT by First_Salute
When Michelle Davis heard two women at a Bellmore nail salon describe a recent alleged sex abuse incident by Mepham High School football team as "kids getting carried away," she threw up her hands so fast she nearly smudged her still-fresh manicure.
"Carried away?," the Bellmore resident shouted. "These kids are criminals! They should go to prison!"
Less than a week after members of the football team were accused of sodomizing younger players at a preseason camp in Pennsylvania with what a source close to a victim said was a broomstick, there is both nervous chatter and uncomfortable silence on the streets of Bellmore and Merrick.
Many adults turned their backs on questions about the alleged incident, saying the community has been humiliated enough. [snip]
"It's so horrifying there aren't even words," said Linda Fishman, 47, of Merrick, who was running errands yesterday. "I sent my son to wrestling camp this March. After this, I'm not sure I would do that again." [snip]
But Alison Humphreys, 17, and her friend Jesse Ganzer, 18, who both graduated from Bellmore's John F. Kennedy High School recently, said they weren't surprised by what allegedly happened. They said even the Kennedy drama club, of which they were members, had terrible verbal hazing rituals. At the annual cast party at the end of the year, the younger students were singled out and ridiculed about their appearances and personalities. Sometimes the verbal abuse became homophobic and racist, they said. [snip]
(The same page has a Newsday.com columnist's article (link) entitled, "Searching for Grownups.")
(Excerpt) Read more at newsday.com ...
In all the above, for the two young ladies of "the Kennedy drama club" (late), and for their many supporters (the Gay and Lesbian Axis), what is and what is not "hazing" is the fine line between a broomstick handle and a forearm hand.
If the football players had used the latter instead of the former, the ladies of "the Kennedy drama club" (late) would be defining everybody else who is ALARMED! by the above "violence," as being "homophobic."
The case rests on a broomstick, or on a fist, if you prefer.
"Grownups" are nowhere to be found, except the brave, "Linda Fishman, 47, of Merrick."
A few years ago I was hired as a coach of a High School soccer team as a non-teacher. During tryouts, I was astounded to arrive one day to see 3 seniors holding down a much smaller sophomore while one of them pulled down his pants and underwear and proceeded to sit his bare butt right on the kids face. I immediately dismissed the offender from the team. While I had backing from my Athletic Director, I caught a lot of heat from teachers and other parents who kept asking for me to reinstate the psycho who thought this was an acceptable ritual. They came to me with all sorts of excuses:"He has good grades", "He has a broken home", "He's viewed as a prankster", etc.
I stuck to my guns---but it remained a distraction for the entire season.
For the record, this was NOT something that was a regular occurance as initiation in years prior. For teachers to defend and excuse that behavior is a statement of our culture today.
You are absolutley correct. I had countered in my disagreements with the pillars of education in my situation above that this would be considered sexual assault if the situation was male on female as opposed to male on male.
It sickens me to see this defended even by silence.
The profound recoil against the mechanization of life, the wholesale attack on bourgeois morals, the emphasis on nudity and sexual license, the affinity for anarchist tactics, the search for exotic states of mind and exotic forms of dress, the yearning for pastoral freedom, communal living and generational solidarity, above all...the cult of the irrational – all of these features of the revolt we are now witnessing were crucial to the Expressionist program.The above piece was not describing American society, but the Weimar Republic in Germany immediately before the rise of Naziism.--Hilton Kramer, “E.L. Kirchner: Art vs. Life”, The New York Times, April 6, 1969
I predict that the American kids that did the above sodomizing will have a great future as politicians, just like the kids in Germany did.
Oh please! This is nothing more than boys being boys. This country has so gone off its rocker. It may have been over the top - but bring criminal charges!
You either forgot the sarcasm tag, or you have a serious problem.
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