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1 posted on 03/05/2005 9:39:04 AM PST by Salvation
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A supplement and some prayers for Reconciliation [Confession]:

An Examination of Conscience

Prayer Before Confession

O Lord, grant me light to see myself as Thou dost see me and the grace to be truly and efficaciously contrite for my sins. O Mary, help me to make a good confession.

Preliminary

Besides telling the nature of our sins, we must also recollect, as far as possible, the number of times we have committed them, telling also (and only) those circumstances which at times may either make a venial sin mortal or a mortal sin notably worse.

  1. Have I ever failed to confess a serious sin or disguised it?
  2. Have I been guilty of irreverence for this sacrament by failing to examine my conscience carefully?
  3. Have I failed to perform the penance given me by the confessor or disobeyed any of his directions?
  4. Have I neglected the Easter duty of receiving Holy Communion or failed to confess my sins within a year?
  5. Have I any HABITS of serious sin to confess first (impurity, drunkenness, etc.)?

First Commandment

  1. Am I ignorant of my catechism (Act of Contrition, Apostle's Creed, Ten Commandments, Seven Sacraments, the Our Father)?
  2. Have I willfully doubted or denied any of the teachings of the Church (heresy)?
  3. Have I taken active part in any non-Catholic worship?
  4. Am I a member of any anti-Catholic or any secret society?
  5. Have I knowingly read any anti-Catholic literature?
  6. Have I practiced any superstitions (horoscopes, fortune tellers, etc.)?

Second Commandment

  1. Have I used God's name in vain by way of profanity?
  2. Have I murmured or complained against God (blasphemy)?
  3. Have I maligned priests or others consecrated to God?
  4. Have I sworn by God's name (oath) either falsely or rashly?
  5. Have I broken any private vow?

Third Commandment

  1. Have I missed Mass on Sundays or holydays through my own fault?
  2. Have I been late for Mass through my own negligence?
  3. Have I been inattentive at Mass or otherwise failed in reverence for the Most Blessed Sacrament?
  4. Have I done unnecessary servile work (physical labor) or shopping on Sunday?

Fourth Commandment

  1. Have I been disrespectful to my parents or neglected them?
  2. Have I failed in obedience or reverence to others in authority?
  3. Have I mistreated my wife or children?
  4. Have I been disobedient or disrespectful to my husband?
  5. Regarding my children:
    • Have I neglected their material needs?
    • Have I failed to care for their early Baptism or their proper religious instruction?
    • Have I allowed them to neglect their religious duties?
    • Have I otherwise failed to discipline them?
    • Have I given bad them example?
    • Have I interfered with their freedom to marry or follow a religious vocation?

Fifth & Eighth Commandments

  1. Have I quarreled with any one?
  2. Have I cursed anyone or otherwise wished evil on him?
  3. Have I taken pleasure in anyone's misfortune?
  4. Is there anyone to whom I refuse to speak or be reconciled?
  5. Have I lied about anyone (calumny)?
  6. Have I rash judged anyone of a serious sin?
  7. Have I engaged in gossip (detraction) or spread scandal?
  8. Have I lent an ear to scandal about my neighbor?
  9. Have I been jealous or envious of anyone?

Sixth & Ninth

  1. Have I denied my spouse his or her marriage rights?
  2. Have I practiced birth control?
  3. Have I abused my marriage rights in any other way?
  4. Have I committed adultery or fornication?
  5. Have I touched or embraced another impurely?
  6. Have I sinned with others of the same sex?
  7. Have I committed masturbation or otherwise sinned impurely with myself?
  8. Have I harbored lustful desires for anyone?
  9. Have I indulged in other impure thoughts?
  10. Have I failed to dress modestly?
  11. Have I done anything to provoke or occasion impure thoughts in others?
  12. Have I read indecent literature or looked at indecent pictures?
  13. Have I watched suggestive films or programs?
  14. Have I permitted my children or others under my charge to do these things?
  15. Have I used indecent language or told indecent stories?
  16. Have I willingly listened to such stories?
  17. Have I boasted of my sins?
  18. Have I sinned against chastity in any other way?

Seventh & Tenth Commandments

  1. Have I stolen anything?
  2. Have I damaged anyone's property through my own fault?
  3. Have I cheated or defrauded other?
  4. Have I refused or neglected to pay any debts?
  5. Have I neglected my duties or been slothful in my work?
  6. Have I refused or neglected to help anyone in urgent necessity?
  7. Have I failed to make restitution?

OTHER SINS

  1. Have I knowingly caused others to sin?
  2. Have I cooperated in the sins of others?
  3. Have I sinned by gluttony?
  4. Have I become intoxicated?
  5. Have I used narcotics?
  6. Have I been motivated by avarice?
  7. Have I indulged in boasting or vainglory?
  8. Have I received Holy Communion or another sacrament in the state of mortal sin?
  9. Is there any other sin I need to confess?

Prayer for a Good Confession

O my God, by my grievous sins I have re-crucified Thy divine Son to myself and have deserved Thy everlasting wrath in the fires of hell. Even more, I have been most ungrateful by my sins to Thee, my Heavenly Father, Who have created me out of nothing, redeemed me by Thy Son, and sanctified me in the sacraments by Thy Holy Spirit. But Thou hast spared me to make this confession. Receive me back as Thy prodigal son and grant me to confess myself well, that I may begin anew to love Thee with my whole heart and soul, henceforth keeping Thy Commandments and suffering patiently whatever temporal punishment for my sins may remain. I hope by Thy goodness and power to obtain everlasting life in paradise. Through Christ Our Lord. Amen.

This item 6320 digitally provided courtesy of CatholicCulture.org


2 posted on 03/05/2005 9:42:24 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation; american colleen; Lady In Blue; narses; SMEDLEYBUTLER; redhead; Notwithstanding; ...
The information you printed has been granted an Imprimatur .... can't get much better than that. Here is another excellent resource, compliments of Sandyeggo's parish of St. Ephrem.

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"On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said, "Peace be with you !"... And with that he breathed on them and said, "Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven." (John 20:19-24)

In those words, Jesus Christ ordains the sacrament of Repentance meaning that he bestows on the disciples and their descendants who are the bishops who committed to the priests the power of: "forgiveness of the sins of the repentant confessors intending the loyalty who lost by the sin what they got from the goodness because of God and his grace in the baptism", and each believer has to confess his sins to the priest in order to get the forgiveness. The power of deliverance and holding which by its power "whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loosen on earth will be loosed in heaven", (Matthew 18:18) overpass the power of humanity because no one "can forgive sins but God alone". (Mark 2:7). And the disciples and their descendants couldn't have it without the one who "has authority on earth to forgive sins..." (Mark 2:10).

Because the priest cannot forgive the sins except in the name of God and his power, so the christian who confesses to him doesn't confess to a human; he might be a sinner and he is not allowed to ascend the secret thoughts of the conscious but he confesses to God through his representative and to him open his heart and entreat forgiveness.

Condition of his Acceptance

The supports of the sacrament of repentance are deliverance of the priest and the acts of the repentant that are three:

1. The first one is the contrition which requires that the repentant feels heartily sorry from a disobedience he committed intending not to do it again in the future.

2. The second one is the tongue's confession which requires that the confessor has to avow to the priest a total confession in every preserved sin.

3. The third one is the atonement of the offense according to the priest's belief and supported especially by prayer, fasting and the truth.

 

So, the christian sinner has to examine his conscience:

  • First, to remember the nature of his sins, by asking the Holy Spirit "To Lighten his Darkness." (Psalm 17:29)
  • Second, to regret his sins because the sin is an insult to God which caused the death of his son on the cross, or at least it forbids the soul from Heaven and makes it deserving Hell.
  • Third, to intend from his heart and by trusting God's aid, not to sin again in the future, and to compensate for every sin that can be compensated for, like stealing, and to prevent any chance to sin again.
  • Fourth, to confess to the priest his sins in detail - kind, number and facts which might change their types, without concealing anyone of them, because intended concealment makes the sacrament false (or useless), while forgetting does not forbid the influence of the sacrament; and sinner's duty is to compensate for it after all that the confessor will be able to judge in the case of the soul and to guide her to the best way to prevent the bad and to grow up in perfection.
  • Fifth, to pay back what the confessor asks the sinner to compensate for his sins (The Law).

And obviously, the real repentance including all the sins is important to get the pardon because God does not forgive whose heart is still far from him and attached to the sin.

Testimony of the Repentance

After becoming mature, every believer, man or woman, has to confess to a confirmed priest, even if he was the server of the mission or not, will all his sins, at least once a year, during the forty days of Lent. And he has to pay back the expiation he owed as much as he can and to take with respect the Eucharist at least during Easter... or he will be forbidden to go into the church during his life, and will be denied the christian burial when he is deceased.

(The Lebanese Council: Sacrament of Repentance)

This is a testimony, that every christian if he failed in the deadly sin, has to move in his heart the feeling of regret and to hasten to accept the forgiveness, in order not to be forbidden God's love and deserve his works, and not risk himself to die in the sin.

  • Abortion.
  • Adultery.
  • All use of illegal drugs.
  • Any dealing with occult, IE. Ouija boards.
  • Artificial Birth Control.
  • Blasphemy: disrespect toward God or toward his Holy Name.
  • Breaking promises deliberately.
  • Bringing dishonor to family, school, community, or the church.
  • Calumny: telling lies about another.
  • Despair: To believe that God will refuse to forgive you.
  • Destruction of other people's property.
  • Detraction: Telling an unkind truth about another.
  • Disobedience toward parents / teachers.
  • Drunkenness, including any drinking under the age of 21.
  • Excessive materialism.
  • Gluttony: eating or drinking to excess.
  • Gossip: talking about others.
  • Hatred.
  • Homosexual actions.
  • Impure thoughts.
  • Indifference to good or evil.
  • Ingratitude.
  • Intentional violation of school rules.
  • Jealousy.
  • Laziness.
  • Lying.
  • Malice: The deliberate choice of evil.
  • Masturbation: impure actions with yourself.
  • Missing Mass on any Sunday or Holyday.
  • Murder.
  • Not praying everyday.
  • Premarital sex, including oral sex, intercourse, impure touching of another.
  • Presumption: sinning and saying God MUST forgive me.
  • Pride.
  • Prostitution.
  • Reckless driving that endangers you, passengers, or others.
  • Rudeness.
  • Selfishness.
  • Stealing.
  • Superstition.
  • Unjustified anger.
  • Using others for your own personal gain.
  • Watching or looking at pornographic material.


6 posted on 03/05/2005 1:34:14 PM PST by NYer ("The Eastern Churches are the Treasures of the Catholic Church" - Pope John XXIII)
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Penitential Ping!
8 posted on 03/05/2005 1:43:26 PM PST by narses (St James the Moor-slayer, Pray for us! +)
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To: Salvation
Thanks, great post, very useful...Just came back from Confession.

I wonder if any priest ever reminded people in the bingo hall about the first commandment.

...Did I make use of superstitious practices; such as believing in dreams, and charms, and the like?
9 posted on 03/05/2005 2:06:23 PM PST by Coleus (STOPP Planned Parenthood http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/892053/posts)
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To: Salvation

Here's a shorter version:

What have I done well today?
(Thank God for that)

What have I done wrong today?
(Say an act of contrition)

What can I do better tomorrow?


23 posted on 03/06/2005 7:33:02 PM PST by guinnessman
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Resources for all those parishes having Reconciliation services and Confessions this week!!!!!


29 posted on 03/08/2005 7:05:07 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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CONFESSION GUIDE FOR ADULTS

CONFESSION GUIDE FOR CHILDREN

EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE

  1. I am the Lord your God. You shall not have strange gods before me.
    -Do I give God time every day in prayer?
    -Do I seek to love Him with my whole heart?
    -Have I been involved with superstitious practices or have I been involved with the occult?
    -Do I seek to surrender myself to God's word as taught by the Church?
    -Have I ever received communion in the state of mortal sin?
    -Have I ever deliberately told a lie in Confession or have I withheld a mortal sin from the priest in Confession?
    -Are there other "gods" in my life? Money, Security, Power, People, etc.?
     

  2. You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain.
    -Have I used God's name in vain: lightly or carelessly?
    -Have I been angry with God?
    -Have I wished evil upon any other person?
    -Have I insulted a sacred person or abused a sacred object?
     

  3. Remember to keep holy the Lord's Day.
    -Have I deliberately missed Mass on Sundays or Holy Days of Obligation?
    -Have I tried to observe Sunday as a family day and a day of rest?
    -Do I do needless work on Sunday?
     

  4. Honor your father and your mother.
    -Do I honor and obey my parents?
    -Have I neglected my duties to my spouse and children?
    -Have I given my family good religious example?
    -Do I try to bring peace into my home life?
    -Do I care for my aged and infirm relatives?
     

  5. You shall not kill.
    -Have I had an abortion or encouraged or helped anyone to have an abortion?
    -Have I physically harmed anyone?
    -Have I abused alcohol or drugs?
    -Did I give scandal to anyone, thereby leading him or her into sin?
    -Have I been angry or resentful?
    -Have I harbored hatred in my heart?
    -Have I mutilated myself through any form of sterilization?
    -Have I encouraged or condoned sterilization?
    -Have I engaged, in any way, in sins against human life such as artificial insemination or in vitro fertilization?
    -Have I participated in or approved of euthanasia?
     

  6. You shall not commit adultery.
    -Have I been faithful to my marriage vows in thought and action?
    -Have I engaged in any sexual activity outside of marriage?
    -Have I used any method of contraception or artificial birth control in my marriage?
    -Has each sexual act in my marriage been open to the transmission of new life?
    -Have I been guilty of masturbation?
    -Do I seek to control my thoughts and imaginations?
    -Have I respected all members of the opposite sex, or have I thought of other people as mere objects?
    -Have I been guilty of any homosexual activity?
    -Do I seek to be chaste in my thoughts, words, actions?
    -Am I careful to dress modestly?
     

  7. You shall not steal.
    -Have I stolen what is not mine?
    -Have I returned or made restitution for what I have stolen?
    -Do I waste time at work, school, and home?
    -Do I gamble excessively, thereby denying my family of their needs?
    -Do I pay my debts promptly?
    -Do I seek to share what I have with the poor?
    -Have I cheated anyone out of what is justly theirs, for example creditors, insurance companies, big corporations?
     

  8. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
    -Have I lied? Have I gossiped?
    -Do I speak badly of others behind their back?
    -Am I sincere in my dealings with others?
    -Am I critical, negative or uncharitable in my thoughts of others?
    -Do I keep secret what should be kept confidential?
    -Have I injured the reputation of others by slanders?
     

  9. You shall not desire your neighbor's wife.
    -Have I consented to impure thoughts?
    -Have I caused them by impure reading, movies, television, conversation or curiosity?
    -Do I pray at once to banish impure thoughts and temptations?
    -Have I behaved in an inappropriate way with members of the opposite sex: flirting, being superficial, etc.?
     

  10. You shall not desire your neighbor's goods.
    -Am I jealous of what other people have?
    -Do I envy the families or possessions of others?
    -Am I greedy or selfish?
    -Are material possessions the purpose of my life?

 

A GUIDE TO CONFESSION

How to go to Confession

  1. You always have the option to go to confession anonymously, that is, behind a screen or face to face, if you so desire.
     

  2. After the priest greets you in the name of Christ, make the sign of the cross. He may choose to recite a reading from Scripture, after which you say: "Bless me Father for I have sinned. It has been (state how long) since my last confession. These are my sins."
     

  3. Tell your sins simply and honestly to the priest. You might even want to discuss the circumstances and the root causes of your sins and asks the priest for advice or direction.
     

  4. Listen to the advice the priest gives you and accept the penance from him. Then make an Act of Contrition for your sins.
     

  5. The priest will then dismiss you with the words of praise: "Give thanks to the Lord for He is good. You respond: "For His mercy endures forever." The priest will then conclude with: "The Lord has freed you from your sins. Go in peace." And you respond by saying: "Thanks be to God."
     

  6. Spend some time with Our Lord thanking and praising Him for the gift of His mercy. Try to perform your penance as soon as possible.


PRAYER BEFORE CONFESSION

O most merciful God! Prostrate at your feet, I implore your forgiveness. I sincerely desire to leave all my evil ways and to confess my sins with all sincerity to you and to your priest. I am a sinner, have mercy on me, O Lord. Give me a lively faith and a firm hope in the Passion of my Redeemer. Give me, for your mercy's sake a sorrow for having offended so good a God.
Mary, my mother, refuge of sinners, prays for me that I may make a good confession. Amen.

 

 


AN ACT OF CONTRITION

Oh my God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong
And failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance,
to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Our Savior Jesus Christ
suffered and died for us.
In His name, my God, have mercy. Amen.

 


32 posted on 03/15/2005 7:53:03 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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Bumping for all who are going to Confession this week. Warning -- there probably will NOT be Confessions on Holy Saturday!! (At least in the evening.)


33 posted on 03/22/2005 7:30:48 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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Priests as Mediators

by Fr. John De Celles

Other Articles by Fr. John De Celles
Priests as Mediators
12/3/05


People often wonder why Catholics have to go to a priest to be forgiven their sins. Some point out that St. Paul tells us that Jesus is the only Mediator between God and man (1 Tm 2:5).

But while Jesus is the only way to the Father and the only Mediator, Scripture makes it very clear that God calls other human beings to participate in this mediation. From the very beginning of God's revelation to Israel 3,700 years ago, God has chosen individual human beings — people like Abraham, Moses and the prophets — to communicate, or mediate, His will to the world. And in today's Gospel text, St. Mark reminds us that God sent St. John the Baptist to act as a mediator between Jesus and the Jews.

Why does God send mediators, both before and after Jesus? Advent is a season of preparation for celebrating Jesus’ coming into the world at Christmas. At the heart of this mystery is the fact that God became man to communicate clearly and completely through His human body and with human words. But Jesus took His body with Him when He ascended into heaven, while our bodies — the bodies of Christians — are still here. And Jesus continues to send us to mediate through the body, through speaking and hearing His word, and through the holy symbols we see and touch, especially the sacraments.

The Gospel tells us that 2,000 years ago, St. John the Baptist proclaimed "a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins." And in response Scripture says: "People...were going out to [John]...as they acknowledged their sins." Today, we do exactly the same thing as we go to the sacrament of penance and acknowledge, or confess, our sins before God’s chosen mediators — the priests of the Church. And when we hear those mediators say "I absolve you from your sins" we can hear in their human voices, not the voice of St. John, but the voice Jesus Himself, who St. John tells us "takes away the sin of the world!" (Jn 1:29).

The mediation of priests is a great gift to the whole Church. But by their baptism "in water and the Holy Spirit," lay Christians are also called to be mediators of Christ in some way. For most serious Christians, Advent is a time when the words of St. John can elicit a very strong response from us: We hear, "prepare the way of the Lord," and part of us shouts, "Yes, Lord."

But most of us don’t go much further than that initial "yes." Sometimes this is because we're afraid of failure, and sometimes it’s because we really don't know how to prepare the way.

If you’re afraid of failure, remember you are only a mediating instrument — you prepare the way only by allowing Jesus to act through you; let Him worry about the final results. Remember that the great mediator of the Messiah, St. John the Baptist, recognized that even his work was incomplete and only an opening for the Lord: "One Who is more powerful is to come after me."

If you just don't know how to prepare Jesus’ way, remember you start by preparing yourself, by accepting the word of God proclaimed by the Baptizer and by the Church: Confess and repent your sins.

Few of us are called to be public mediators like St. John the Baptist or priests. But this Advent the Lord Jesus Christ calls every single Christian to be His mediator to a sinful world by proclaiming, in everything we say and do: "Prepare the way of the Lord...make straight His paths."

Fr. De Celles is Parochial Vicar of St. Michael Parish in Annandale, Virginia.

(This article courtesy of the
Arlington Catholic Herald.)


35 posted on 12/03/2005 4:51:52 PM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation

BTTT for those people attending Reconciliation Services before Christmas.


36 posted on 12/20/2005 5:50:05 PM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
Confession pamplet -- How to Make a Good Confession
37 posted on 12/20/2005 5:51:21 PM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Coleus

Thanks for the bump.


39 posted on 12/21/2005 7:30:49 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation

BTTT as we get nearer to the end of Lent.


41 posted on 03/22/2006 8:00:09 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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Too thorough. :)


43 posted on 04/13/2006 9:00:11 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Salvation

Excellent... humbling...


45 posted on 04/13/2006 4:11:35 PM PDT by Bigg Red (Never trust Democrats with national security.)
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To: Salvation

bump for later reading and bookmarking


46 posted on 04/13/2006 8:59:47 PM PDT by DaGman
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To: Salvation

bttt


47 posted on 03/09/2007 9:56:10 AM PST by diamond6 (Everyone who is for abortion has been born. Ronald Reagan)
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