This isn't men bashing, it really isn't. I hope that they take back their rightful place at the helm.
Women who think they're smarter than men are out of their minds. The feminists jumped ugly, and the men said 'ok, we'll do it your way.' And to quote a country song, they got the gold mine, the feminists got the shaft.
The awe and beauty of the masculine was on display on and after 9/11. We need a lot more of that type of courage and strength, and not just when tragedy strikes. In the laity, we need men to take a serious lead. I'm not sure it's reclaimable at this point. Time will tell.
Men find repulsive, as a general rule, the hand-holding kumbaya and homilists who preach love, love, love. Find a real church and you'll find real men. A poofter in the pulpit and no real men. We believe in struggling for God.
Kumbaya-loving men are ball-less, following their wives to church.
JMHO.