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A Challenging Truth, Part One: How Birth Control Works
Catholic Exchange ^ | February 9, 2008 | Patti Maguire Armstrong

Posted on 02/10/2008 5:51:22 AM PST by NYer

How can something be both immense and minute at the same time, something upon which all of human history depends, yet fragile and almost non-existent to the eye?  It is the union of an egg and sperm — an embryo.  Such is God's way.  He takes something smaller than a mustard seed and brings forth all of civilization.  After creating everything in the universe single-handedly, He created us in his own image and bestowed upon us the power to become co-creators with Him.  Working in union with us, when the sperm unites with the egg, not only has a new human life been set in motion, but so too has a spiritual life.  God places an everlasting soul into the being of every son and daughter.

Most of us rarely think that deeply about it all.  In our worldly way, we forget eternity and begin to affix costs — physical, emotional and monetary.  The costs can seem exorbitant when we focus only through the eyes of the world.  And looking through those same worldly eyes, the way to prevent the miracle we clearly do not recognize as such is so easy, inexpensive, and ironically, also so small — the birth control pill.  But the pill does not just prevent the miracle, it also destroys it, a fact that is often surprising to committed pro-lifers.  This fact is true for all contraception that works through manipulation of hormone levels.

History

The pill has become a symbol of freedom to those who have been told they can "have it all".  And it has become a symbol of destruction to those who support a "Theology of the Body," philosophy, the essence of Catholic teaching that artificial means must not disrupt God's natural order of things.

The first birth control pill received approval from the Food and Drug Administration in 1960.  Using a synthetic estrogen hormone, the pill tricked a women's body into thinking it was pregnant.  No egg would be released thereby preventing the opportunity for conception. 

Although the pill was initially introduced with the idea of affording women a reliable way of limiting their family size, it soon became the ticket to the Sexual Revolution that began in the Sixties and never really ended.  The pill promised something it's never been able to deliver: sex with "no strings attached".  There are always emotional and moral consequences to thwarting God's purpose, but women discovered physical problems too.  Blood clots, heart attacks and strokes were some of the side effects caused by the Pill's high estrogen levels.  Drug manufacturers lowered these levels in order to reduce the side effects but that also increased the incidence of breakthrough ovulation.  With the lower levels of estrogen, eggs would sometimes still get released and pregnancies resulted. 

 The drug companies tackled this situation by adding the synthetic hormone progesterone, which makes the uterine wall (the endometrium) inhospitable to implantation by an embryo.  So if an egg was released and became fertilized by a sperm, thus creating life, the pill would have actually failed to prevent a conception, meaning it failed as a contraceptive.  But, through preventing implantation of the embryo, the pill acts as an abortifacient and stops life from continuing to the next stage.  (A clear and simple demonstration of this can be seen here.)

Since some women actually do become pregnant while on the pill, there are some embryos that manage to implant into the uterus.  Whether it's RU-486, Norplant, Depo-Provera, the morning after pill, the Mini-pill, or the Pill, there is no chemical "contraceptive" that always causes an abortion.  There is also none that never causes an abortion.

Ignorance

There is no way of knowing what percentage of pregnancies result in abortion through the pill.  The woman using the pill with this scenario never even knows that she conceived a child.  Her cycle will continue on schedule with no realization that an embryo is being flushed from her body.  The Catholic Church has never wavered on the teaching that life begins at conception.  Although Catholics are contracepting at rates parallel to non-Catholics, using artificial means to change our body's natural functions in order to block the potential for life has been recognized as rebellion against God's plan for humanity.  However, using natural means to understand the rhythms of life and then to work in union with God is encouraged through Natural Family Planning.

The issue of birth control is a big one where misunderstanding and ignorance often misguide people.  But when it comes to the pill, the ignorance that many women fall prey to is lack of understanding of its abortifacient properties.  Most women don't consider that while taking their birth control, they may also be aborting a life within them.  As Pope Paul VI predicted when he issued his encyclical Humanae Vitae (Of Human Life) in 1968, the use of artificial contraception would lead to abortions.

Although it seemed to many to be an overdramatic prediction, it proved to be prophetic.  In hindsight, its logic in saying that widespread use of contraception would lead to "conjugal infidelity and the general lowering of morality" was prophetic.  Since the Pill began to be sold in 1960, divorces have tripled, out-of-wedlock births jumped from 224,000 to 1.2 million, abortions doubled, and cohabitation soared 10-fold from 430,000 to 4.2 million.

Sex both inside and outside marriage ceased to be about a bond of marital love in which a couple became one in union with God.  It became merely an activity for personal satisfaction devoid of anything more.  The Pope predicted man would lose respect for woman, considering her "as a mere instrument of selfish enjoyment, and no longer as his respected and beloved companion."

Society as a whole moved from recognizing sex as something reserved for married couples to something for everyone, since the possibility for pregnancy was greatly reduced (although never completely removed).  Thus, people completely opposed to having children could have sex with others whom they had chosen as bed partners but would never chose to co-parent their children.  The most intimate experience intended to be shared in love and self-giving with the potential for creating life became merely a form of recreation.  And if life sprang forth, such a life was easily regarded as nothing more than an unintended problem that could legally be disposed of through abortion.

But women choosing abortion and the men who either make that choice with them or plead for them to do otherwise, are very aware of the decision that is being made, whereas women who choose to take birth control pills are not so aware of the potential ramifications of their choice.  There is not a baby with a heartbeat who must forcefully be removed, but unbeknownst to many, there is a baby.  Since life begins at conception, a life, even though undetectable to us, is still a life.  It is the way God chooses to begin things, small and yet mighty in its eternal existence. 

In addition to the pill, IUDs, Depo-Provera and Norplant also cause early, undetectable abortions.  Doctor usually fail to warn women of the abortifacient properties of the pill.  I've heard some doctors admit they were not actually even aware of these properties.  Women often choose contraception as a means to avoid pregnancy without realizing they are not actually stopping pregnancy, but quickly ending it.

Denial

In his booklet, titled Does the Birth Control Pill Cause Abortions?, Randy Alcorn states: "The question of whether it causes abortions has direct bearing on untold millions of Christians, many of them pro-life, who use and recommend it.  For those who believe God is the Creator of each person and the giver and taker of human life, this is a question with profound moral implications."

Alcorn was a Protestant pastor who not only used the pill in his married life, but also counseled other married couples to do so.  He had a vested interest in not recognizing the pill as an abortifactient.  But when confronted with the facts through his own research, it demanded changes in his own behavior and philosophy.  His booklet was written in 1998 to inform others of the truth.

Alcorn's booklet has met some opposition.  According to him: "Despite evidence, some pro-life physicians state that the likelihood of the Pill having an abortifacient effect is infinitesimally low, or nonexistent.  Though I would very much like to believe this, the scientific evidence does not permit me to do so."

Alcorn, surprisingly, found that the greatest resistance to recognizing the abortifacient quality of the pill comes from the Christian community.  "Dr. Walt Larimore has told me that whenever he has presented this evidence to audiences of secular physicians, there has been little or no resistance to it.  But when he has presented it to Christian physicians there has been substantial resistance.  Since secular physicians do not care whether the Pill prevents implantation, they tend to be objective in interpreting the evidence.  After all, they have little or nothing at stake either way.  Christian physicians, however, very much do not want to believe the Pill causes early abortions.  Therefore, I believe, they tend to resist the evidence.  This is certainly understandable.  Nonetheless, we should not permit what we want to believe to distract us from what the evidence indicates we should believe."  

It's easier to be pro-life when we limit the discussion to the abortion industry.  The inclusion of artificial birth control complicates and confuses people.  With so many opinions even among Catholics, how is a person to know what to believe?  I understand the confusion.  While living in Montana, I had a doctor who was also a priest, who told me it was not realistic to expect a couple to follow the Catholic teaching on birth control.  He prescribed birth control pills to many of his female patients.  So, is it any surprise there are many Catholics, ones like me, ignorant of the true teaching?

Yet, we must cut through the false teachings and erroneous opinions to reach the truth.  Our lives, our bodies and our souls are all we have.  They are gifts that must be safeguarded. Christopher West, author and speaker, has written books and articles explaining the beauty and truth of God's plan for men and women.  In his book, Good News about Sex and Marriage, he asserts that the Church's teaching on sex and marriage is good news because it's the truth about love and true love is the fulfillment of the human person.  He also admits that the news is challenging.  "This is so because the truth about love is always challenging."


TOPICS: Activism; Catholic; History; Religion & Science
KEYWORDS: birthcontrol; birthcontrolpills; contraception; estrogen; prolife; ru486
Patti Maguire Armstrong is the mother of ten children including two Kenyan AIDS orphans. She is a speaker and the author of Catholic Truths for Our Children: A Parent's Guide (Scepter). She is also the managing editor and co-author of Ascension Press's Amazing Grace book series. Her website is RaisingCatholicKids.com.
1 posted on 02/10/2008 5:51:25 AM PST by NYer
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2 posted on 02/10/2008 5:53:16 AM PST by NYer ("Where the bishop is present, there is the Catholic Church" - Ignatius of Antioch)
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To: NYer
In his book, Good News about Sex and Marriage, he asserts that the Church's teaching on sex and marriage is good news because it's the truth about love and true love is the fulfillment of the human person. He also admits that the news is challenging. "This is so because the truth about love is always challenging."

Good summary. Christian love always requires dying to yourself, laying down your life for others.

One of the Eucharistic Prayers begins the consecration, "Before He was given up to death, a death He freely accepted ...". I always get a chill, because I know how I fail in "freely accepting" the ways I'm called to die to self.

3 posted on 02/10/2008 6:03:44 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: NYer

I encourage people to learn about the sympto-thermal method of child-spacing. It is not rhythm. It has 3 basic aspects to it, and zero side effects. It is very effective for child spacing, but is not intended to alter an open relationship with God. Women who have been married several years are often able to identify the onset of ovulation with only one of the three factors.

It is also part of an open attitude towards human life. Yet, it does permit husband and wife to delay and/or space children according to their personal and unique circumstances.


4 posted on 02/10/2008 6:10:30 AM PST by fetal heart beats by 21st day (Defending human life is not a federalist issue. It is the business of all of humanity.)
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To: Tax-chick

“May you have MANY children” USED to be a blessing!


5 posted on 02/10/2008 6:20:56 AM PST by NewCenturions ('S mr mo mhulad, 's mr.)
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To: NewCenturions

I have a coffee cup (and I gave them to some of my friends :-), that says:

Health and long life to you,
Land without rent to you,
A child a year to you,
And may you die in Ireland.

I don’t have a baby this year (as I have every even-numbered year for a long time) because of needing to assist my parents, and I feel very sad about it.


6 posted on 02/10/2008 6:26:31 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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Please ping me to note-worthy Pro-Life or Catholic threads, or other threads of interest.

7 posted on 02/10/2008 6:37:11 AM PST by narses (...the spirit of Trent is abroad once more.)
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To: Tax-chick

I have six siblings. Growing up (and going to Catholic school), I thought of us as a “medium-sized” family, as there were families with 10 and 11 kids in the parish.


8 posted on 02/10/2008 7:11:40 AM PST by NewCenturions ('S mr mo mhulad, 's mr.)
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To: fetal heart beats by 21st day

“It is not rhythm. It has 3 basic aspects to it, and zero side effects.”

No side effects?

Well...for some of it who followed it to a “T” - and still wound up pregnant (3 pregnancies since learning the method) I beg to differ.

Granted - our situation is probably unusual, and this method probably works for many people....But -there does come a time for some people when “enough is enough”.

I would never consider the pill - but I am considering other alternatives.


9 posted on 02/10/2008 7:21:39 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

Babies are not side effects.

Cervical cancer, high blood pressure, and infertility are side effects of contaception.

Oh, and I would be interested in seeing a study on the relationship between vasectomies and prostate infections/cancer.


10 posted on 02/10/2008 7:27:22 AM PST by fetal heart beats by 21st day (Defending human life is not a federalist issue. It is the business of all of humanity.)
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To: fetal heart beats by 21st day

“Babies are not side effects.”

True...but I see a tendency to sell the method as being foolproof. Well, it isn’t.
And so - people are being told - use NFP - it is easy and effective!
Well - it may be for some folks and not for others.
One size does not fit all.

Like I said...there does come a time when enough is enough, and to go beyond that point can be dangerous.

“Cervical cancer, high blood pressure, and infertility are side effects of contaception.”

While conraception (I assume you are referring to the pill) does not “cause” cervical cancer - it can encourage the type of behavior that does contribute to it.
Any hormonal based contraception will have dangerous side effects - including the danger of being an abortificant.
No argument here on that.

“Oh, and I would be interested in seeing a study on the relationship between vasectomies and prostate infections/cancer.”

I’m sure that must have been explored - I have not come across info on that suggesting a link.


11 posted on 02/10/2008 7:39:00 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

Prostate cancer is correllated with vasectomy, although I don’t recall whether the report mentioned a causal hypothesis. Cervical cancer is linked to hormonal contraception use by more than promiscuity: some of the studies have shown that the hormonal drugs increase the likelihood of viral infection and/or the probability of the infections’ leading to cancer.

Babies are the reason we have genital organs and the desire to use them.


12 posted on 02/10/2008 7:41:57 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: NewCenturions

I don’t know many couples of our age with more children than I have (eight), but I often run into people my age or older who come from families of ten or more children. This was farm country not that long ago :-). The older ladies are especially happy to see all my children, especially when we’re working the polls on election day!


13 posted on 02/10/2008 7:44:00 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

“Prostate cancer is correllated with vasectomy,”

I didn’t know that - but that wasn’t “on the table” anyway.

“some of the studies have shown that the hormonal drugs increase the likelihood of viral infection and/or the probability of the infections’ leading to cancer.”

Didn’t know that either, but that type of thing was ruled out a long time ago as well.

“Babies are the reason we have genital organs and the desire to use them.”

Really? Wow!
Thanks for the great wisdom there, as I must obviously have the intellect of a 3 yr. old!

Thanks ...all my problems are now solved!


14 posted on 02/10/2008 7:46:09 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

I’m known for stating the obvious. It’s probably because I spend all my time with kids!


15 posted on 02/10/2008 7:48:20 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

LOL!

Sorry for being so snarky!
I’m 7 months pregnant and I’m already waddling.
Contributes to the crankiness.


16 posted on 02/10/2008 7:52:03 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

No harm, no foul. My husband occasionally has to remind me that he’s not one of the kids :-).

Hang in there!


17 posted on 02/10/2008 7:55:52 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

“My husband occasionally has to remind me that he’s not one of the kids :-).”

LOL.
My hubby works with kids all day, and I often tell him “what are you going to do? suspend me? call my parents? C’mon tough guy! What are you gonna do?”


18 posted on 02/10/2008 8:01:28 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

My 6-year-old will say, “You told me ‘No,’ and that upsets me! You’re grounded!” Then I pick him up by his feet and bounce him on his head a few times and say, “Oh, really? You and what army?”


19 posted on 02/10/2008 8:04:55 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

““You told me ‘No,’ and that upsets me! You’re grounded!””

Ahh...my five year old has that attitude.

““Oh, really? You and what army?””

An excellent line from Shrek!


20 posted on 02/10/2008 8:09:20 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife
An excellent line from Shrek!

Is it? It was commonly used in my childhood!

Pat insists that his mother ship from space is going to land and establish him as global dictator. It's led to some interesting situations. "Pat says we have to let him get on the trampoline now or his death gliders will blast us!"

21 posted on 02/10/2008 8:12:43 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

In the beginning of the first Shrek...they stole the line from you!

“”Pat says we have to let him get on the trampoline now or his death gliders will blast us!””

Oohhh...I’m very afraid of Pat.
Will have to make sure he never meets up with my Mary...there’s no telling what destruction the two of them could accomplish together.


22 posted on 02/10/2008 8:18:01 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

I’m always worried when I don’t have Pat in sight.


23 posted on 02/10/2008 8:28:30 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: Tax-chick

I remember a story posted a few years ago about a family spending a night in a hotel.
The 2 yr. old waits for parents to fall asleep, somehow climbs up to the top shelf of the closet and gets the car keys out of mom’s purse.
He lets himself out of the room, unlocks the car and then drives the car right through the wall of of the hotel.

Police arrive and while they are investigating everyone realized kid is missing again.
He was back in the car...with the keys.

Lots of posters were trashing parents and police of course.
I read that and thanked my lucky stars my 3 yr. old boy hadn’t figured that out yet.


24 posted on 02/10/2008 8:32:25 AM PST by Scotswife
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To: Scotswife

LOL! I don’t think I saw that, but I doubt we’ll get all these boys out of the house without something that makes the news. Pat is *really* smart, and James and Vlad do everything he tells them to.


25 posted on 02/10/2008 8:50:34 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Political zombies need brains, but they hunger only for taxes." ~ NicknamedBob)
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To: NYer

>>A Challenging Truth, Part One: How Birth Control Works<<

Keep your pants on and it works just fine.


26 posted on 02/10/2008 10:08:21 AM PST by B4Ranch (("Life is a food chain; if you're not at the top, you're on the menu." ))
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To: fetal heart beats by 21st day; Scotswife
Cervical cancer, high blood pressure, and infertility are side effects of contaception.

Researchers have also confirmed earlier studies that show women who use birth control pills have a higher risk of developing breast cancer.

27 posted on 02/10/2008 10:25:10 AM PST by NYer ("Where the bishop is present, there is the Catholic Church" - Ignatius of Antioch)
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To: NYer

I took birth control when I was a teenager and in the very early years of my marriage. I was clueless about this stuff and about my faith. Hubby and I were a part of a young married couples group when a person came and talked to us about the pill. I cried all night and never took another pill. There was so much I didn’t know! I mourn for the possible children I may have lost during all those years and am eternally grateful for the four I now have.

I’ve found that for us, NFP has become pointless. We no longer worry about whether or not God will bless us with more children. After years of talking about how many kids we’d like to have and whether or not we could “afford” any more the discussion has naturally turned to the fact that we love them all so much, we’ll take as many as we can get.


28 posted on 02/10/2008 11:09:09 AM PST by samiam1972 (I'm a mommy of 4 now!!)
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To: samiam1972

I’m glad you are OK. We’ll never know how many lives have been lost and how many ruined over 40 some years of all this. Many of us are very aware of our mistakes and failures - some made willfully, some naively and some under coercion.
It took me years to finally begin to face it all.
If you would like, please click on http://www.myspace.com/emmettgrayson a song called “A Dream A Lot Like Mine” will come up. It’s free, of course.


29 posted on 02/10/2008 12:35:56 PM PST by Emmett McCarthy
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To: samiam1972; netmilsmom
There was so much I didn’t know!

Of course not and you shouldn't worry yourself over the past. If you must, worry about the media messages being fed to your children today and how they will empact them in the future. We do our best, as parents, to shield and protect our precious children. But when they reach a certain age, they flex their wings and begin to fly. Our responsibility is to lay the foundation of faith that we know will be their source of strength as they mature.

At times, I am naively shocked by the advertising that crosses the screen of my non cable tv, while preparing dinner. Advertisements for 'male enhancement' pills or 'genital herpes' medication. How low has our society sunk that it is necessary to broadcast such advertisements during family viewing hours. For the most part, I have turned off the tv at home or limit my viewing to EWTN or TMC and several other cable stations that provide informative viewing.

My daughter is now 21 and through her I see the ramifications of contemporary American society. Where possible, I try to correct her views that stem from what she watches. Mercifully, she is proud of her Catholic faith even if she doesn't practice it on a regular basis. I use any and all opportunities to continue her Catholic education in faith and morals. It is a daily challenge to keep adult children on the right path because at a certain point in time, they consider our thinking outdated. My prayers for young Catholic parents raising children today. Keep up the good work!

30 posted on 02/10/2008 4:18:55 PM PST by NYer ("Where the bishop is present, there is the Catholic Church" - Ignatius of Antioch)
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To: NYer

Hey Lady!
What am I looking for in your post?


31 posted on 02/10/2008 4:38:45 PM PST by netmilsmom (Giving up "Hairspray" and the cast for Lent. Prayers appreciated!)
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To: NYer

Thanks for posting this. I thought about posting it last night when I first saw it, but told myself I would wait until today. Now, it’s already up!


32 posted on 02/10/2008 4:59:49 PM PST by Salvation (With God all things are possible.)
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To: NYer
More from the Catechism of the Catholic Church:

enter the Table of Contents of the Catechism of the Catholic Church here
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
From the Catechism of the Catholic Church
(click on the book for the link.)
 
 
2399 The regulation of births represents one of the aspects of responsible fatherhood and motherhood. Legitimate intentions on the part of the spouses do not justify recourse to morally unacceptable means (for example, direct sterilization or contraception).

 

2370 Periodic continence, that is, the methods of birth regulation based on self-observation and the use of infertile periods, is in conformity with the objective criteria of morality. These methods respect the bodies of the spouses, encourage tenderness between them, and favor the education of an authentic freedom. In contrast, "every action which, whether in anticipation of the conjugal act, or in its accomplishment, or in the development of its natural consequences, proposes, whether as an end or as a means, to render procreation impossible" is intrinsically evil:

Thus the innate language that expresses the total reciprocal self-giving of husband and wife is overlaid, through contraception, by an objectively contradictory language, namely, that of not giving oneself totally to the other. This leads not only to a positive refusal to be open to life but also to a falsification of the inner truth of conjugal love, which is called upon to give itself in personal totality. . . . The difference, both anthropological and moral, between contraception and recourse to the rhythm of the cycle . . . involves in the final analysis two irreconcilable concepts of the human person and of human sexuality.

33 posted on 02/10/2008 5:01:14 PM PST by Salvation (With God all things are possible.)
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To: Scotswife

Blessings to you from God on high!


34 posted on 02/10/2008 5:02:18 PM PST by Salvation (With God all things are possible.)
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To: fetal heart beats by 21st day

A good book to teach women how to use their body’s signs to know when to conceive and when not to is “Taking Charge of Your Own Fertility” by Toni Wechsler. Not religious at all (nor offensive to the religious) but very factual and easy to follow. Women should understand their own bodies better than they do.


35 posted on 02/10/2008 5:05:39 PM PST by Yaelle
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To: NYer

Not going to insert myself in Catholic teachings but I just wanted to add that Jews consider the birth control pill to be a more g-dly form of birth control than the barrier methods. The reason is that sperm can still contact egg (theoretically) so nothing is coming between them. The pill is SUPPOSED to simply prevent the egg from ripening (doesn’t always work).

The progesterone in the pill does indeed make the uterine lining less hospitable for any embryo that happens to be created; however, poor uterine lining can occur in any woman and also be another cause of an early (often unknown) miscarriage.

Every month, a husband and wife trying to conceive could be having miscarriages and not know it. 30-90% of all of a woman’s eggs (varies by individual woman and of course by age) after the early 20s are no longer chromosomally compatible with existence (I am talking about making it to the 2nd trimester, not children born with Down Syndrome). Not everyone realizes this.


36 posted on 02/10/2008 5:15:05 PM PST by Yaelle
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To: NYer; narses
Pinged from Terri Dailies

8mm


37 posted on 02/11/2008 3:48:14 AM PST by 8mmMauser (Jezu ufam tobie...Jesus I trust in Thee)
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To: Tax-chick

“One of the Eucharistic Prayers begins the consecration, “Before He was given up to death, a death He freely accepted ...”. I always get a chill, because I know how I fail in “freely accepting” the ways I’m called to die to self.”

How about another line in all the Eucharistic Prayers that the radical feminists have perverted. “This is My body, given up for you,” has been twisted into, “this is my body, you can’t tell me what to do or what I can do with it.” One shows ultimate love and sacrifice, the other ultimate selfishness.


38 posted on 02/13/2008 5:14:23 AM PST by Catholic Iowan
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To: Catholic Iowan

Excellent observation. If often think of that line, too. It’s a challenge, here in my 40’s, to give my body for the Lord’s purposes, to bring more children into the world if that’s what He wants.


39 posted on 02/13/2008 5:28:46 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Good guy wins, bad guy gets dead. Nothing to cry over here." ~ trimom)
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To: Scotswife; Tax-chick

Then pray that they never meet my Cooper either. I could run a street full of houses with my bebe’s energy (he’s 3) DH and I always say, “if you could only harness their energy for good, imagine what they could do” :) LOL


40 posted on 02/13/2008 6:20:48 AM PST by SuzanneWeeks (=^..^=)
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To: SuzanneWeeks

Unfortunately, putting them on a giant hamster wheel to run doesn’t generate very much electricity. We tried it when we visited the power plant last fall!


41 posted on 02/13/2008 6:25:52 AM PST by Tax-chick ("Good guy wins, bad guy gets dead. Nothing to cry over here." ~ trimom)
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