Would it be immoral of me to even offer the girl a cash gift to NOT abort her baby?
That is a hard one grandma. Cash would certainly help her out should she decide to keep her baby, but it is poor incentive in becoming a mother.
I know that certain individuals DO pay the expenses of young women who wish to give the baby up for adoption after it is born.
My niece is on an adoption waiting-list. How I wish for her to have the opportunity to love a child.
BTW, my 17 year old daughter found herself pregnant. She kept the baby and thirteen years later I have three wonderful grandsons and a son-in-law. Everything turned out okay. It certainly can!