You must be careful grandma, that your cash would not be used to further this young child’s destruction.
You should structure it in such a way that it would be truly helpful to the girl and child....that it would NOT be used to abort, or for drugs etc.
It sounds as if you are very wise with your money. I’m sure you can find a way.
You are truly a gracious, kind, loving and generous woman. God has touched you in a profound way and made you an example to us all.
This is an emergency. We have to do what we can to save the life of this baby and also save this girl from a life of guilt and regret.