Posted on 06/26/2008 1:54:59 PM PDT by NYer
What’s next? I understand the state of Massachusetts is considering reducing the penalty for bestiality.
Reduce the penalty? They might as well endorse it. What any animal does to get off should be blessed by the state.
Get the government out of marriage. There’s an insane amount of energy spent on this idiotic issue. Free citizens make their own decisions about how to organize their personal lives, and they don’t need permission or rules or licenses from the government. And the government has no business giving certain citizens preference over others, based on whether they’ve signed up for a government-sanctioned “marriage”.
Notice that embryonic stem cells are never used for animal testing.
Or rather, there are folks out there that wouldn't take a, for example, diabetes vaccine that was the product of animal testing, but wouldn't have a problem if it was developed through the use of embryonic stem cells.
There’re never satisfied. After they get gay so-called marriage, they will claim “discrimination” and demand animal-human marriage or some other perversion.
Hmmm. My view is a bit different than yours. I agree that government has no business being involved in many issues, but sanctioning marriage between one man and one woman is not one of them. Monogamous, heterosexual marriage is the best thing a free society and a responsible government can endorse. A man and woman who love each other enough to procreate, raise and nuture their offspring - benefit society and humanity in untold ways.
G*d, I wonder what sexually transmitted disease will now spread to humans from livestock via these practices.
If it’s the “best thing”, then it will flourish without government intervention. It it can’t flourish without government intervention, then it’s not the best thing.
I completely agree, although I think we are very much in the minority. I don’t think the institution of marriage has prospered much by being involved with gubberment. I can’t say that I am shocked that the gubberment is messing it up, it’s not like the gubberment is great shakes with anything.
I think traditional marriage has been hurt by folks letting gubberment define it and be involved with it.
Freegards
Ping to 11 - thoughts?
It wouldn't be hard to simply default to next of kin, as is already the case with minors or unmarried adults. And we all saw how well the "let the spouse decide" system worked for Terri Schiavo. Michael Schiavo's ONLY standing to interfere in legal and treatment decisions for Terri was derived from his holding a government-issued marriage license. When push comes to shove, a person holding a piece of paper from the government saying s/he is "married" to you, is no more likely to follow your wishes than your next door neighbor or your dentist. In fact the neighbor and dentist are LESS likely to have any ulterior motives for wanting you to die quickly and/or cheaply.
As for the "good for the children", "stable economic unit" arguments, again the license from the government is not the causative agent. People who raise their children in a sane and stable environment aren't doing so because they have a piece of paper from the government saying they're "married", nor is the issuance of such a piece of paper going to cause irresponsible/criminal/substance-abusing parents to set up sane and stable households.
What's needed is for the government to stop all the handout programs that enable personally and financially irresponsible people to maintain homes and keep possession of children. Then sane and stable and economically self-sufficient family arrangements will once again predominate. Units consisting of a man and a woman and their biological children will likely be a big portion of those arrangements, and many of those will regard themselves as "married" through their membership in a religious body. But to the extent that other arrangements function without taxpayer handouts, government has no business showing a preference for one type of arrangement or another. Social engineering is simply not an appropriate function of government.
But if no legal relationship exists between two people, how can the law recognize one? Or are you saying the widow(er) is just outta luck?
And we all saw how well the "let the spouse decide" system worked for Terri Schiavo. Michael Schiavo's ONLY standing to interfere in legal and treatment decisions for Terri was derived from his holding a government-issued marriage license. When push comes to shove, a person holding a piece of paper from the government saying s/he is "married" to you, is no more likely to follow your wishes than your next door neighbor or your dentist. In fact the neighbor and dentist are LESS likely to have any ulterior motives for wanting you to die quickly and/or cheaply.
I don't think the Schiavo case is a fair one, because I don't think it is the common experience, and she wasn't on life support - she was on a feeding tube. And I would like to think the person I marry would have my best interests in heart. Maybe I'm just not that cynical, but they don't get that piece of paper until we've already pledged our lives to each other - it just provides the legal ability for the spouse to act on their behalf.
As for the "good for the children", "stable economic unit" arguments, again the license from the government is not the causative agent.
Not trying to argue it is causative, but government is the most legitimate and authoritative social entity and allowing for civil recognition of marriage indicates that society as a whole values marriage.
But to the extent that other arrangements function without taxpayer handouts, government has no business showing a preference for one type of arrangement or another. Social engineering is simply not an appropriate function of government.
Maybe, but then do you support polygamous and other such arrangments? Or even beastiality? I would argue under your take on things, criminalizing such acts amounts to a type of social engineering.
Regarding social welfare from the government, you'll find me in complete agreement.
Frank, in my faith marriage is a Sacrament. I wouldn’t consider the state sanctioning this Sacrament to make it any more or less real, but why put the gubberment in a position where it can start approving of marriages that just can’t be marriages no matter what the state says?
I think state sanctioned marriages conditioned folks to look at least partly to the gubberment to define marriage, to the point that some would accept any combination of mobile protein masses as married if the state says ok-dokey. And of course gubberment eventually meesed up and said ok-dokey. Also, I bet divorce is a lot more common too because after all, you’re just breaking a gubberment contract and the gubberment doesn’t inspire a lot of fidelity to itself.
As far as the legal stuff goes, you have some really good points and I’m not sure if there are good solutions, or at least any from me. But all these issues somehow get handled for single people. And nothing would stop a couple from going and getting a private contract of some sort to handle these issues if they would wish. I wonder if gubberment got out of marriage if there would be more or less of the legal system devoted to marriage issues?
Freegards
Slippery Slope is a fallacy. Whatever they are talking about when SS comes up, usually an ethical or moral topic, they don’t have anything and are blowing smoke.
I think state sanctioned marriages conditioned folks to look at least partly to the gubberment to define marriage, to the point that some would accept any combination of mobile protein masses as married if the state says ok-dokey. And of course gubberment eventually meesed up and said ok-dokey. Also, I bet divorce is a lot more common too because after all, youre just breaking a gubberment contract and the gubberment doesnt inspire a lot of fidelity to itself.
It is a Sacrament in my faith as well; however, there are a lot of people in this country who don't share my faith or your faith. I don't believe government is an entity in and of itself - the government we have is a reflection of society. Look at the members of "the Greatest Generation" - they all had state sanctioned marriages, but they didn't face the issues faced by marriage today. Why? Because of their faith, and the social mores and norms that say you are supposed to stay together.
In order to fix the problem, IMHO, we need to start at society and go bottom up. It is on us to fight the other side, and make the arguments - if we are successful and show the "squishy middle" why we are right, and we do it rationally and in charity, the government will reflect the changes in society.
As far as the legal stuff goes, you have some really good points and Im not sure if there are good solutions, or at least any from me. But all these issues somehow get handled for single people. And nothing would stop a couple from going and getting a private contract of some sort to handle these issues if they would wish. I wonder if gubberment got out of marriage if there would be more or less of the legal system devoted to marriage issues?
I suppose they could create private contracts for such actions...and what, just not call it a "marriage contract"? Because, in the eyes of the legal system, isn't that all a marriage is? Conveying rights and privilges to a couple? Also, what about compelling testimony and such between spouses? You can't contract immunity. Maybe if the government never got into the marriage business, we wouldn't have this problem. However, it exists and I think we all know how hard it is to undo law!
“...they all had state sanctioned marriages, but they didn’t face the issues faced by marriage today. Why? Because of their faith, and the social mores and norms that say you are supposed to stay together.”
I don’t reckon they considered themselves more married because the state agreed with their faith. In fact, the reasons the majority of those marriages lasted has nothing to do with having to get permission from the gubberment, as you stated: faith, social mores and norms.
You can’t trust gubberment to keep it’s standards. So why put gubberment into something as important as marriage, where sooner or later it will put forth an impossability like declaring two men married? I mean, are you shocked that it messed up marriage?
Do you think that gov’t sanctioned marriage has helped or hurt the state of marriage?
“I suppose they could create private contracts for such actions...and what, just not call it a “marriage contract”? Because, in the eyes of the legal system, isn’t that all a marriage is? Conveying rights and privilges to a couple? Also, what about compelling testimony and such between spouses? You can’t contract immunity. Maybe if the government never got into the marriage business, we wouldn’t have this problem. However, it exists and I think we all know how hard it is to undo law!”
Well, I’m not sure what rights and privileges a state sanctioned marriage vs.a non-state marriage contract would have if gubberment got out of the marriage business. It would ‘probly vary from couple to couple, and some would choose for no contract, I reckon. I agree that it would be a lot better if gov’t had never got into the marriage biz, but since it is it would be a lot harder to change. But that’s the same for any gubberment involvement in anything.
Freegards
Hyperbole aside,
there is only one definition of marriage,
what the California court did was UNDEFINE marriage, not REdefine it.
If the one definition of marriage isn’t “valid”, then there is NO definition of marriage.
This is probably what they had in mind all along.
Communist goals for the takeover of America:
24. Eliminate all laws governing obscenity by calling them “censorship” and a violation of free speech and free press.
25. Break down cultural standards of morality by promoting pornography and obscenity in books, magazines, motion pictures, radio, and TV.
26. Present homosexuality, degeneracy and promiscuity as “normal, natural, healthy.”
40. Discredit the family as an institution. Encourage promiscuity and easy divorce.
Do you think that govt sanctioned marriage has helped or hurt the state of marriage?
See, this is where you and I differ I think. I don't think it is government that has messed up marriage - I think society has messed up marriage. The "sexual revolution" in particular. People stopped caring about marriage, clamored for no-fault divorce, and then the government reflected that change in society - it did not happen the other way around. Which leads me back to my point that society is the problem, not the government.
Government is in marriage because of the legal concepts involved - prior to modern times, the state defined marriage by what the Church said, and then attributed legal rights to the marriage. With modern seperation of Church and state, the legal system does not provide the same protections and rights simply because of the Sacrament.
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