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How Soon Should a Baby be Baptized?
Catholic Exchange ^ | October 1, 2009 | Cathy Caridi, J.C.L.

Posted on 10/01/2009 6:29:50 AM PDT by NYer

Q: Our new next-door neighbors have a 14-month-old daughter. They’re Catholics, but I just found out that they still haven’t had their daughter baptized yet! When our own children were born over 30 years ago, we had them baptized when they were just a couple of weeks old. Aren’t you required to have your children baptized quickly like that any more? –Frances

A: The Church’s teaching on the necessity of baptism for salvation has not changed. Christ Himself, after His Resurrection, couldn’t have spoken more clearly about the need for baptism, when He commanded the Apostles to go forth and baptize all nations (Matt. 28: 19-20). As the Catechism teaches, “through baptism we are freed from sin and reborn as sons of God” (CCC 1213 ). It is only logical that Catholic parents should want to have their newborn children baptized as soon as possible, to free them from original sin and make them members of the Church.

As we have seen in this space so many times before, canon law follows theology. So it isn’t at all surprising to find that canon 867.1 states that parents are obliged to see that their infants are baptized within the first few weeks after birth. And the very next paragraph, canon 867.2 , adds that if the child is in danger of death, he is to be baptized immediately.

Thus it should be clear that waiting for months, or even years, to have one’s child baptized is not only not in keeping with the Church’s theological teaching, it is also contrary to canon law. It is difficult to imagine a legitimate reason why Catholic parents, who truly believe in basic tenets of our faith like original sin and God’s grace, would fail to arrange for their children to be baptized as soon as possible.

Ironically, it may be that the wonderful medical advances of the last several decades have inadvertently led many Catholic parents to lose the traditional sense of urgency about having their newborn children baptized. For centuries, the Church’s teaching about the importance of baptism for salvation dovetailed neatly with the fear of many parents that their newborn might not live very long, and so both supernatural and natural reasons tended to push parents to have their children baptized as quickly as they could. If you have ever read the biography of a medieval saint, or if done genealogical research on your own family members in centuries past, you might very well have come across an instance where someone was baptized the day after his birth, or even sooner. In fact, it isn’t necessary to dig so far back in the historical past to find examples of this: in 1927, Pope Benedict XVI himself was baptized the same day that he was born.

This practice was, of course, logically consistent with Catholic doctrine. Given the extraordinarily high rates of infant mortality in generations past, and the fear that an infant might die before original sin had been wiped from his soul, what Catholic parent wouldn’t rush a newborn child to the parish church for baptism as soon as possible?

While there still is always some risk that a child may not survive, nowadays the fear that a newborn infant might not make it is hardly so great as before, especially here in the US. At the same time, baptisms have become big family/social events, when relatives fly into town and there is often a big family get-together after the ceremony. Of course there is nothing intrinsically wrong with this; in fact, we do well to maintain our awareness of the importance of such an event by celebrating the occasion. But unfortunately, the desire to have all the family present at a child’s baptism can naturally lead to postponing the sacrament until everyone is able to make it. While parents are waiting for this or that relative to have a free weekend to travel, their new baby remains in original sin.

There are other factors which now sometimes lead parents to put off having their new child baptized. As we saw back in the June 21, 2007 column , it is standard practice these days in the US for parishes to require parents to attend an evening class (or series of classes) before their child is baptized. This is designed to ensure that the parents truly intend to raise their child in the Catholic faith—an intention that must be present if the priest is to agree to perform the baptism (c. 868.1 n. 2 ). Occasionally I have heard parents complain that they can’t have their new baby baptized until they attend this class, and that in their parish, the class is held only once a month. But in every single case, I have found that these complaining parents had made no effort whatsoever to inquire about the requirements for their infant’s baptism ahead of time. Since parents obviously are aware for months in advance that they will be having a baby, it is difficult to understand their failure to do this. Why not arrange to attend the class a month or two before the child’s expected birth-date, so that it will be possible to have the baptism soon afterwards?

Many parishes do an excellent job of publicizing the need for all parents to attend the baptism class, and class dates are announced well in advance. Others could probably do a better job of instructing their parishioners about the obligation of all parents to have their children baptized soon after birth. I have personally seen a disturbing pattern in many Catholic Hispanic communities, where children are routinely baptized when they are apparently two or three years old, if not older! If their parents had fallen away from the faith, and just recently returned to the Church, this of course would be an entirely understandable explanation for the delay. But if these families are regularly practicing Catholics, it appears that the pastor and parish catechists would do well to remind parents more forcefully and more often that by delaying their child’s baptism, they are leaving that child in original sin. If, God forbid, tragedy strikes and such a child suddenly dies, he leaves this world without the sacramental graces gained from baptism—and by his parents’ choice.

Another, more abstract factor that may cause some new parents to wrongly conclude that there is no need to rush to baptize their child, is the fallout from the fairly recent theological statement from the Vatican concerning Limbo . In 2007, many media outlets wrongly declared that Pope Benedict XVI had “done away with Limbo.” Even the most sincere journalist could perhaps be forgiven for being confused about what the statement actually meant! In its 2000-year existence, the Catholic Church has never made a definitive, authoritative statement explaining exactly what happens to infants who died before being baptized. Since they themselves are completely innocent, it seems absurd to conclude that God damns them to hell; although no less a theologian than St. Augustine really did reach this conclusion 1600 years ago, it was, understandably, not a position subsequently embraced officially by the entire Church. At the same time, the Church teaches that baptism is necessary to enter Heaven, since we must first be wiped clean of original sin and made children of God before we can be with Him there. It is thus a quandary with which theologians long have had to grapple, and the conclusion that there must be some third place (dubbed “Limbo”) was reached as a result. In Limbo, they said, the souls of unbaptized children enjoy some degree of happiness, but they are deprived of the Beatific Vision of God because they are still in original sin. This is not a teaching that can be found anywhere in revelation; rather, it is a logical conclusion of the Church’s teaching on baptism.

In the mid-2000’s, the International Theological Commission (ITC)—a team of theologians chosen from all over the world by the Pope to serve together as a joint committee of experts—was tasked with studying the issue of what happens to infants who die without the grace of baptism. The issue was not merely a theoretical, academic one: questions have been raised repeatedly about the fate of those millions upon millions of children who are killed by abortion. And what about those embryos which are created through in-vitro fertilization, and later discarded in the lab as superfluous? The Church needed to examine the issue more closely.

In their report—which was approved by the Pope—the ITC provided no magic answer to this difficult theological question. It reiterated traditional Catholic teaching when it asserted that “the necessity of the sacrament of Baptism is proclaimed and professed as integral to the Christian faith understanding” (66 ), and it did a beautiful job of tracing the historical development of the belief in Limbo, the existence of which “is not a dogmatic definition” (38 ). The ITC emphasized that there is no need for such a place necessarily to exist at all, since “God can therefore give the grace of Baptism without the sacrament being conferred” (82 ) if He so wishes. In other words, God is not bound by the sacraments; He can, if He so wishes, freely allow the soul of an unbaptized infant into His presence in Heaven. Thus the ITC stressed the need for hope and trust in the mercy of God, since “the point of departure for considering the destiny of these children should be the salvific will of God” (41 ).

This report could too easily be misinterpreted as saying that there is no need to baptize our children, since God will allow them into Heaven anyway. But the report definitely does not exonerate parents whose children die without baptism, when the parents have not made an effort to have the baby baptized promptly. Thus it cannot be used as an excuse for failing to have a newborn infant baptized as quickly as the parents reasonably can.

True, there are tragic situations where a newborn dies unexpectedly in the first few hours or days of his birth; if the parents had been planning to have him baptized soon, it is certainly difficult to fault them for not being fast enough! But it is a very different matter when a child of several months, or even years, dies without having been baptized, solely through the negligence of his parents. New parents need to keep in mind—and to be reminded—of the incredible spiritual responsibility they bear toward their newborn children, who must depend on their parents to ensure that they are relieved of the burden of original sin so that they may someday see God face to face.


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To: FourtySeven

“it would be equally foolhardy to believe that simply because of any one, singular act, we are somehow rendered “immune” to the effects of future sin.”

But this is exactly what happened at the cross! Either your God is able to save you (and save you to the uttermost), or He is not.


141 posted on 10/01/2009 12:40:31 PM PDT by MarDav
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To: Clemenza; The Invisible Hand
The RCC instituted child baptisms to insure that those who died in infancy would see heaven, as opposed to "Limbo."

Yet in the original post the RCC scholars all got together and couldn't make a decision about Limbo. Neither, yes nor no. Do Roman Catholics believe in actually FOUR places a soul could go to now? Heaven, Hell, Purgatory and Limbo? Show where the last two are named anywhere in scripture.

142 posted on 10/01/2009 12:40:48 PM PDT by boatbums (Not everything faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed unless it is faced.)
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To: Boogieman

10-4 and vice versa, for we are members one of another. We (both sides) are just being pigheaded about it.


143 posted on 10/01/2009 12:48:01 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin: pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Mad Dawg; kosta50; Kolokotronis; Nikas777
10-4 and vice versa, for we are members one of another. We (both sides) are just being pigheaded about it.

However, neither Catholics nor Orthodox claim that the other are damned to Hell.

144 posted on 10/01/2009 12:56:43 PM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: absolootezer0; A.A. Cunningham
my children have not been baptized, just as Jesus didn’t baptize any children.

To the best of my knowledge, Jesus Christ didn't baptize ANYONE.

also part of baptism is symbolic of “washing away our sins” how many sins has an infant committed?

No, Original Sin is very real and it must be cleansed, not just symbolically.

145 posted on 10/01/2009 12:58:44 PM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: Boogieman
Every instance of Baptism that is described in the New Covenant period follows salvation. This is demonstrated in various ways (the convert heard the gospel and believed, the convert repented, they confessed their belief, etc), but there is not one instance of a baptism occuring before conversion, and not one instance where a child is mentioned as being baptized. My opinion is that, unless your child is old enough to understand what the gospel message is and confess their belief, they are not old enough to be baptized.

So when the Jailers Whole Family was baptized they had ALL heard the Gospel? Ya wanna quote chapter and verse on that?

146 posted on 10/01/2009 1:03:33 PM PDT by verga (I am not an apologist, I just play one on Television)
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To: boatbums

(Sigh). I said it was a “parallel”. As for no place in scripture saying an outward act is necessary for salvation, please read John 3:3-5. No one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born again of the water and of the Holy Spirit. Jesus did not say “except little children, because they haven’t reached the age of reason.” Jesus gave us specific instruction and never waivered from what He said. When I read “no one” it means “no one”. How is it that so many people take certain verses literally, but reject literal interpretation of others?

Baptism IS an outward sign of salvation in the New Covenant, and it is clearly mentioned in Scripture (see 1 Peter 3:21, Romans 6:3, Col. 2:11-12, Acts 16:15, Acts 16:33). You read of “whole households” being baptised. Why would whole households be baptised? Because Christianity was at its own infancy - there were no “cradle Christians” (at least not until those infants were baptised). Some might say because an infant is not specifically mentioned, they are excluded. I beg respectfully to differ. Just because they are not mentioned, they are neither excluded nor included. We simply cannot know. What we do know is John 3:3-5, which is clear as a bell and offers no wiggle room. We also know Luke 18:15-16 - Now they were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. But Jesus called them to him, saying “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them; for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”

As for me, my children are baptised as infants. I will give them that glorious grace at the beginning of their lives.


147 posted on 10/01/2009 1:04:08 PM PDT by melissa_in_ga (God Bless Sarah Palin)
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To: Boogieman
To me this argument more than most demonstrates the futility of arguing from Scripture.

WE could play a Boolean game:

(1) IF you believe AND are baptized THEN you will be saved.
(2) IF you do not believe AND are baptized THEN you will not be saved.
(3) IF you are baptized AND do not believe THEN you will not be saved (See #2).
(4)IF you believe AND are not baptized THEN you will not be saved, For

Baptized AND Believe
T T T
T F F
F T T
F F F
So the only case in which "If you believe and are baptized" has a value of T(rue) is if you both believe and are baptized.

And the proper response to this kind of analysis is first stifled laughter and then guffaws.

It seems to me at least as likely that the hard and fast distinction between inner act and sacrament was not really intended by the Evangelist or Our Lord in this logion, or even that this logion is intended or to be taken as exhausting the set of people who will be saved.

148 posted on 10/01/2009 1:04:26 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin: pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: wagglebee; A.A. Cunningham

now original sin has always been a odd concept. is original sin considered an *actual* sin, or is the concept that all people are born with the propensity to sin, and will eventually? (i was taught the latter)
i was raised with the understanding that sin is the intentional act of knowing what’s wrong and doing it anyway.

(BTW, looking for understanding, not an arguement)


149 posted on 10/01/2009 1:04:43 PM PDT by absolootezer0 (divorced, tattooed, pierced, harley hatin', meghan mccain luvin', smoker and pit bull owner.. what?)
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To: Mad Dawg
OOOPS! Dyslexia kicked in. Table should be:

Baptized AND Believe
T T T
T F F
F F T
F F F

150 posted on 10/01/2009 1:06:17 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin: pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Ro_Thunder
Baptism is a choice; babies can’t make that choice. Once a child has reached the age they are mature enough to make that choice, then the child should ask to be baptized. However, that age is dependent on the child.

And the Israelite children and slaves were given a choice when exactly? God Said do it immediately for the slaves and on the 8th day for newborn children.Don't see a whole lot of accepting and professing when a kid is 8 days old do you?

151 posted on 10/01/2009 1:09:43 PM PDT by verga (I am not an apologist, I just play one on Television)
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To: absolootezer0
Just for starters.

Good question. The term "sin" is used ambiguously for particular acts and for a state.

152 posted on 10/01/2009 1:10:14 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin: pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Scythian
There is no infant baptism, a person is baptized when they realise the message of Christ is valid and they surrender thier life to him. If sprinkling water on a baby was a magical entry into heaven by sheer works then Christ died for nothing ...

Funny stuff, completely wrong, but funny none the less

153 posted on 10/01/2009 1:11:13 PM PDT by verga (I am not an apologist, I just play one on Television)
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To: Scythian
Whatever, what a silly argument, the Bible doesn’t mention sticking olives in ones ears as means to salvatin either does it? Go head, sprinkle your babies, I was a Catholic for 30 years, then I heard the true gospel which was that salvation was by faith and not works, it was a real moment of conversion and sheer utter shock that I did not know the truth, Salvation was revealed to me by grace, all of my family, and wifes family are catholics, ask them if they are going to heaven they say “Yes” ask them why “Because I am a good person” is always the answer, this is true with almost every single catholic I meet, you can deny that all you want ...

Bible specifially says NOT by faith alone. BTW the rest of your post is a bunch of palaver. The turth is that you committed some sin that you were embarrased to go to a priest about and confess. You gradually stopped going to church and then started going to some "Bob's house o' god" for cheap easy faith with folding chairs and doughnuts for fellowship. Say what you want , but the fact remains that your faaith is out of it's depth in a rain puddle. Grow up, get back to the Catholic Church, make a full confession, and get right with God before you need asbestos underwear to be seated in the smoking section

154 posted on 10/01/2009 1:18:17 PM PDT by verga (I am not an apologist, I just play one on Television)
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To: absolootezer0; Mad Dawg

Mad Dawg’s link explains Original Sin, but no it is not an actual sin that we ourselves commit.


155 posted on 10/01/2009 1:19:02 PM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: Mad Dawg
I'm sure you don't. That would require going back to the first post and following the argument that did not originally include you.

But, no one called you "unregenerate scum". I don't have any idea if you are regenerate or not. What I said was, "Bad hermeneutics, coupled with stubborn self-aggrandizement has permeated Rome and most of it constituency.

And that is true.

156 posted on 10/01/2009 1:22:17 PM PDT by Dutchboy88
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To: verga

He he, no, not really, I really like Hellfire and Brimstone preaching, the kind that scares the sin out of you. I can confess my sin directly to God, remember when the curtain seperating the holy of holy’s was torn, now we can approach boldly the Throne of God, but only through the blood of his Son Jesus and only because we are cleansed by his blood. You don’t seem to mention Jesus much but I bet you could spin a yarn on Mary.


157 posted on 10/01/2009 1:22:21 PM PDT by Scythian
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To: verga

One rarely takes the trouble to show that all the choices have been mentioned. It makes rigorous argument so much more difficult.


158 posted on 10/01/2009 1:25:55 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin: pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Mad Dawg

see, now you’re getting into what have always seemed to me to be gray areas. The death and resurrection were to wipe out man’s sin.. wouldn’t that include original sin as a sin unto death? or does that only count for sin that you repent for? and if so, how can original sin be repented for at all, let alone by a child that doesn’t comprehend?


159 posted on 10/01/2009 1:28:06 PM PDT by absolootezer0 (divorced, tattooed, pierced, harley hatin', meghan mccain luvin', smoker and pit bull owner.. what?)
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To: Boogieman

Uh, maybe cause the early Christians —as adults—were baptized as adults.

Will check further.


160 posted on 10/01/2009 1:30:18 PM PDT by Recovering Ex-hippie (Pray for Israel! And Georgia ! And the Iranian people! and Honduras!)
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