[D-fendr]

That's not what I said. I said that caring for someone else is also a form of self-pleasure.

It's a difference without a distinction.

A reiteration: It's caring about someone else more than you care about [a form of] self-pleasure.

[kosta50]

A reiteration: It's caring about someone else more than you care about [a form of] self-pleasure

Grasping at straws. People feel good when they care whatever they care for. They love it. No matter how you turn it around, there is self-pleasure involved in caring.