What she volunteered wasn't, somehow, enough?
What is truly despicable is the one who will defend the guilty to accuse the innocent.
When you talk about someone, you’re supposed to use enough FReeper etiquette and ping them.
And GailA volunteered nothing that indicated that she knew beforehand that he was abusive.
Point number two in verga’s post was pure speculation on his part. It was totally uncalled for, so, yes, he did accuse her of something of which her had no knowledge, blaming her for marrying a man she knew was abusive. And it remains despicable that he would blame the victim.