"So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God. Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother's way." Romans 14:12-13 (KJV)
Translation: God decides. Not verdugo.
Being married to two people (divorce having no impact on the sacramental vows of marriage) is an objective moral evil and should always be vonsidered as such.
It is objectively hypocritical to proclaim to be Catholic and to be married to two people.
I write for Catholics. I don't know what you are, but, to answer your post:
By the time God decides, it's too late! I am not "deciding", I am warning from Catholic doctrine, the truth, no adulterer will be saved. If you choose to ignore the Church, that is your problem, the Church has spoken CLEARLY. When you go before God, you will not be able to say, Lord, but no one told me clearly.
"Among adults there are few saved because of the sins of the flesh....With exception of those who die in childhood, most men will be damned". (St. Remigius of Rheims)
If you only knew the women who will go to Hell because they did not bring into the world the children they should have given to it. ( St. John Vianney)