I have to remind myself of what: "Forgive us of our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." means first sometimes and then I'm back on track.
Exactly... how can we expect God to forgive us if we can not forgive others... that does not mean we are suckers and are to be walked over. In the light of ETERNITY and ETERNAL damnation how can we NOT forgive and pray for our enemies.