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“Wanting to live with Jesus without the Church, following Jesus outside of the Church, loving Jesus without the Church is an absurd dichotomy.”
That is pretty much standard Catholic doctrine and has been for 2,000 years. Compare this to St Paul’s words in Ephesians:
Eph 5:22 Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This is a great mystery, and I mean in reference to Christ and the church;
St Paul compares the relationship of Christ and His Church to a marriage...where the two become one flesh.
It is from this link: http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-religion/3011464/posts
And, IMO, the word “church” is synonymous with the words “body of believers”.
The Church is the Body of Christ. We literally cannot find Christ outside His Church.
The stumbling block may be that we are thinking of the word ‘Church’ in a restrictive sense.
If we think of The Church as “all the people who are being saved by Christ + all those who have died in a state of grace + the Holy Angels” then things may become clearer.
The Church is an iceberg. It has its visible part and its invisible part.
Its visible part is the clearest expression and embodiment of Christ - most especially in the Sacraments.
But where we find Christ in an unexpected place, there we have also brushed against His Church. Hidden, fugitive - but also real and salvific.
Do you find the Holy Eucharist outside the Church?