You will be there, Kitten, if you are born again and filled with the Holy Spirit.
I Corinthians 10:16 The chalice of benediction, which we bless, is it not the communion of the blood of Christ? And the bread, which we break, is it not the partaking of the body of the Lord?
If Christ is not present in the Eucharist, then either Jesus Christ Himself, God from God, only begotten Son of God is a liar, or Scripture is in error and misquotes Christ. Every other alternative the Self Alone crowd weaves is an attempt to delude the gullible by claiming that Scripture requires the very linguistic skills the the same Self Alone people insist are not required to understand Scripture.
Anyone who does not have sufficient faith in Jesus Christ to accept the hard teaching that He is present in the bread and wine is turning and walking away from Jesus Christ. They cannot be led by or filled by the Holy Spirit because they have rejected Jesus Christ.
Those who continue to deny the deity of Christ by calling Jesus Christ a liar can fool themselves however they like, but they should get used to the idea of hearing, "I never knew you" from the very Jesus Christ they don't have faith in.