Certainly not in my world.
not in my world are they either, nor my families.
Actually most I know feel the same way as you and I .
You are born a male you are a male, and if they do not believe in God then they certainly believe in evolution. So how does two of the same sex which nature intended ? They can’t .
Kids do better with a mother and a father. Time after time it has been shown , infact when divorces started to go up back way back we were seeing kids with a mother and a father in the home was better for them.