Posted on 05/15/2021 4:58:41 PM PDT by pastorbillrandles
I’m very sorry for your terrible experience but I have been blessed with a good woman as millions of other men have as well. I sincerely wish you the best but stop being so bitter. There are great women out there and there are great men that they should marry. The nuclear family is not possible without marriage. If that is not the case we should just pray for the asteroid now.
You are making assumptions thst are incorrect.
I am not bitter. I am a realist. And often there are unpleasant things in the world. I do not sugarcoat them.
There are tens of milions of destroyed men in this country. Why you turn a blind eye to them and the system that destroys them, all the while encouraging them to enter into that system like they have nothing at all to wory about or reconsider, is hardly Christian.
How about some faith in God’s Law not man’s?
Faith in Gods law doesnt mean not observing what is going on in society and the culture and making good judgments based on what you are seeing.
The wise man sees what is going on around him and plans accordingly, the fool keeps on going like everything is the same.
You setup a strawman of "All marriages are good" to argue against. No one has stated this. No one believes this.
You don't recommend marriage for any man. That means you are for bastard children and the destruction of the family. This is the utter destruction of society and civilization.
Sorry for being harsh but that end result is what you are preaching.
No.
I dont recommend marriage for any american man, in the current climate.
I dont recommend any american man have any kids, in the current climate.
I believe the climate can improve, but i also believe such drastic measures are necessary in order for marriage to have a chance at changing to once again be a good thing for men.
You have to realy watch the knee-jerk reactions to someone who doesnt hold your views. Also using yurself as an example is purely anecdotal and you take things very personally by doing so. Not a great way to convince people or even attempt to argue basic points.
I dont recommend any american man have any kids, in the current climate.
Absolutely terrible advice with terrible consequences. Don't you realize you are surrendering?
The climate ain't going to change itself without leaders that are taught truth.
You are employing utterly ridiculous and self defeating logic.
Dont you realize you a posterboy for the current anti-male cucked gynosociety? Its not going to get better for men if you keep encouraging it.
Whatever you say. I am counter-culture dummy.
you are not counter culture, and i never said that
you are the current culture, promoting marriage as a good deal for men, regardless of what the current reality is for men
and thats the problem
“It is not good for the man to be alone”...take you beef upstairs.
And the self-identified single Apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:8”To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am.”
But I speak this by indulgence, not by commandment. For I would that all men were even as myself: but every one hath his proper gift from God; one after this manner, and another after that. But I say to the unmarried, and to the widows: It is good for them if they so continue, even as I. But if they do not contain themselves, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to be burnt. But to them that are married, not I but the Lord commandeth, that the wife depart not from her husband.
Yes cotext is everything.
Paul is saying to be unmarried is good as well.
If you have a society that is going to hell and turning marriage into a financial prison and no rights for men concerning children, you can see where this bolsters Pauls admonition.
Look you just want guys to be slaves on the gynoplantation and be controlled by the world system that is anti-man and anti-family, trying to jutify it by warping Gods word to rationalize it.
You want to demonize anyone who says its better to not be controlled by this system because its voluntary and you dont have to give that power over to the world, over you.
Fine, be a schill for the status quo that treats husbands like interchangeable pieces, gives all the power to women, ad cucks the guys into being little beta simp atms hoping they wont one day wind up in family court getting divoce raped.
I want to spare guys from this end, because over half of all marriages go this way, and 2nd and 3rd marriages have even higher divorce rates. Keeping on doing the same thing expecting different results is crazy.
Al that separates you and any married guy from divorce rape is your wife’s current mood. One phne call is all t takes.
That is not a good deal for any man.
You are truly out of your mind. Thanks for denigrating my wife and the mother of my children. You are truly an ass and need serious help.
I feel sorry for you.
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