There are many great women out there for men. I found my mate and we have been married 23 years and made it work.
When you finally decide to invite the Lord into your marriage it is pretty amazing how you can make it work. It the becomes your foundation of strength and comfort for your life.
Comment isn’t dumb at all. God also gives people common sense and when something turns into a very bad deal for one side of the contract, which marriage is,
the people who know its a bad deal, shouldn’t take it, and advise others they care about not to as well.
It would ge a dumb comment if we still had biblical marriage. We do not anymore. We have state run gynocentric marriage today. We have marriage that you can leave because you’re bored now. 80% of divorces are instituted by women. Marriage isn’t failing because its the men are filing. And if you think just because you have been married a long time you’re okay, you’re dead wrong. The fastest growing area of divorces are in the elderly, ie grey divorces.
Its not anything I’d advise any man to enter into now. I wish I could, but that’s not what I think is good advice.