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Why Christians Don't Understand Non-Christians
ArGee | 1/3/01 | ArGee

Posted on 01/03/2002 11:19:13 AM PST by ArGee

A very rich man decided that he wanted to show kindness to the people of the fair city where he lived. Since he was very rich indeed, he decided to throw a banquet for the entire city. He rented the largest sports arena in the city and began his plans. He planned for huge amounts of the best food possible, making allowances for every religious and medical diet. He advertised the banquet in every possible manner - television, radio, billboard, door-to-door canvassing. Considering that there might be some who could not travel, he arranged for free bus transportation to and from the event, and some special-needs vehicles for all who could not ride busses. He even scheduled the banquet to run for 24 hours a day for several days so that everyone could be sure of being served.

He planned long and hard and finally the big day came. The rich man ate quickly and then went about wishing all his guests well and personally making sure that all had every need met. After a while he went outside to tour the grounds and talk with those who had not yet gone in, and those who had already left. Everyone was happy. Many were profusely thankful. It was a glorious occasion.

At one point the rich man noticed a group of people sitting outside a locked door with most unpleasant looks on their faces. Sensing they were not happy, he went over to them. He did not introduce himself but simply asked them if he could be of service.

"We want to go in through this door," one of them replied.

The rich man explained to them that the hall was arranged to feed a large number of people as quickly and effortlessly as possible. This required order inside, and the entrances and exits had been carefully planned to be as efficient as possible. He then offered to go call one of the golf carts that were avaialbe to help people who could not walk far to take them to the entrance. But the man replied, "We do not want to go in the entrance. We want to go in this door. We don't understand why we can't go in any door we wish. We think the man who set this banquet up is mean and hateful for insisting we go in through the entrance. He has tried to bill himself as a very kind man by offering this banquet, but he is not kind at all if he will not indulge us and let us go through this door.

The rich man was distressed at these words, but still attempted to please these people. He tried once more to explain to them what was behind this particular door, and how if they went in this door they would disrupt the meal service being offered inside. He offered to drive them himself, not only to the door, but inside the hall to their tables if they would only go through the entrance to enjoy the meal. Again the man said, "No, but only a hateful man would keep us from going through the door of our choosing. And we will sit here and tell anyone who will listen to us what an awful man he is until he lets us in."

At that the rich man was enraged and he shouted, "Enough." Then he called a police officer to have them thrown off of the property and ordered that they not be allowed to return until the banquet was over and all the scraps had been hauled away. Then, mourning for their loss, he turned to visit with other guests.


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To: OWK
Falling asleep at keyboard. G'nite.
401 posted on 01/03/2002 7:55:39 PM PST by savedbygrace
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To: OWK
What can it even mean for God to be "subject" to anything? What kind of god is that?

This is not a dodge. As one who's faithful and truthful, we must expect God to be consistent and not arbitrary -- IOW, unchanging. No, he does not play tricks on men. to "play tricks" is to assume that men enjoy sovereignty in their own right, without respect to God, and that man has some sort of right to be unmolested by God. I know this is probably the vierw you favor. But once again -- if that's what God is -- one who holds less than absolute sovereignty -- who needs him? OTOH, if God is an absolute sovereign, with ALL the rights, who nevertheless wishes man over time to acquire an intimate knowledge and relationship with him, who are we to question the means by which he chooses to make himself known?

Please consider that your model of a legalistic, moralizing god may be primitive and inadequate. All the easier to shoot down, no doubt, if that is your purpose, but unworthy of you.

402 posted on 01/03/2002 7:59:24 PM PST by Romulus
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To: Romulus; OWK
While I applaud efforts on the part of believers to bring The Word of Salvation through Christ to unbelievers, and while we as Christians are further commanded by scripture to do so, we are also told not to "cast pearls before swine."

Once having been exposed to The Word, if any should repeatedly prove that their only purpose in joining such discussions is to pillory, insult, defame, and spit upon the Holy Word of God, then continuing to so enjoin them is an affrontery before God.

It is here where a Christian crosses the line between "witnessing" and "casting pearls before swine."

Sadly, continuing to hold up God's Word for "give me some proof" heretics like OWK to take potshots at is the latter, and ill-advised. I have watched many here on FR try to soften OWK's heart to this life-saving message, and the replies are always the same.

I pray for OWK, and all afflicted with the same malaise.

403 posted on 01/03/2002 8:03:14 PM PST by Dynamo
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To: Codie
Why do you write God as G-d?

It's a Jewish thing. It was considered blasphemy to write God's name and then destroy it, so they would abreviate it in this manner. That way if their writings were destroyed they hadn't offended him. Many Jews still continue with this practice.

404 posted on 01/03/2002 8:07:08 PM PST by elmer fudd
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To: LuvItOrLeaveIt
I've been where you are at with this.

You want an intelligent answer concerning one place or the other. There is Genesis that tells us that God created the Heavens and the earth. But, I do realize you likely do not hold much respect for the Bible.

Consider, two facts that you must face. That our universe/matter/energy is eternal or that there is a higher being that is eternal and created what we see and don't see. I believe it takes more faith to believe that matter is eternal.

LuvItOrLeaveIt, there is no possible way you will understand with your intellect the Christian faith. Just for a moment choose to believe there is a God. This most high being has all the intellect---it passes all understanding. He doesn't give a flip about our intellect with all that He has. No, he does not want our minds or our intellectually understanding, He wants our hearts. He wants your heart. Surely you've noticed the differences in your very life between matters of the heart and matters of the intellect. If it took intellect, LIOLI (you sure have a long name), where would that leave the mentally handicapped? It is the heart that God wants of us. If you could for just a moment ponder the very idea of God and then see your position to God and be willing to open your heart up long enough for Him to show himself to you-----oh, the wonder you would behold. But, there are no words I can use nor anyone else. It has to do with your willingness or your rebellion.

I've said too much. I'm sorry. I'm sad for you that you think you know when really you do not. I do not say that in a prideful way. I rebelled myself. I thought I knew. Then, one night, the Lord just came and showed Himself to me and gave me faith to believe that He was who He said He was. May the Lord visit your heart and reveal Himself to you in a mighty way. ~Boxsford

405 posted on 01/03/2002 8:08:11 PM PST by Boxsford
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To: OWK
ugh, you libertarians are soooo000000 logical!!! Can't you for one minute set your logic aside.:) (really I appreciate your logic when talking politics) You are as frustrating as those that need the intellectual answer. There is a difference between logic and faith. Come on, you must have had faith in something you really didn't understand completely?! I have faith my lights will turn on when I flip the switch, but I sure as heck don't understand why those lights go on. (It's simplist I know but it's late for me)
406 posted on 01/03/2002 8:12:46 PM PST by Boxsford
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To: Romulus
...God, being perfectly justified in his absolute sovereignty, has has no need of human approval?

THAT is precisely the sticking point most Atheists and Agnostics choke on. They don't want to allow for the fact that there is a Sovereign God who has not only the ability, but the RIGHT to hold man accountable for his actions, because in so acknowledging, they de-throne themselves from absolute mastery of their own destiny. They cannot accept that in God's eyes, they are flawed, imperfect, and unsuited to be in God's presence, or to even approach Him in their own natural state.

It does no good to quote scripture to one who doesn't believe scripture. That which, for the Christian, answers the question, does not do so for the unbeliever, for he does not accept the validity of the scripture. Without a common frame of reference, neither side can agree, because they have no common ground on which to build. Unbelievers, Atheists, and Agnostics rely on their own observations, their own conceptions, and their own abiltites to discern, decide, and draw conclusions about God. They invariably mold and fashion a God of their own conception, one who behaves (or doesn't behave) according to what they think He should do or not do. They accept no authority outside of themselves, or those who they have deemed knowledgeable in accordance with their own definiton and conception of knowledge. Their belief system (or lack of one) is turned inward on itself as a closed loop, with no outside interaction accepted or wanted. They convice themselves that they are right, because they feel that they are, judging by the self-consistency of their system. The flaw in it is that it is based upon a god who does not exist as they have conceived him. if God did exist as they have conceived Him, then they would be right. The flaw is in the perception of God, who He is, and His Sovereignty. As I said before, God is not what we conceive Him to be, He is what He reveals Himself to be, and the one true religion would be the one who starts with that as it's First Premise, and aligns itself with what God reveals Himself to be, no matter how it may differ from what they think He ought to be, or wish He was.

407 posted on 01/03/2002 8:23:08 PM PST by nobdysfool
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To: ArGee
In order for you to understand how the non-christian feels, you merely have to be willing to do a little thought exercise. Just imagine if your essay was written by a buddhist, and the banquet was called "nirvana" and not "salvation". Here you show up at the door with a cross over it, demanding entry, while the host kindly tries to direct you to another, with a sculpture of a portly, bald reclining figure handing out seating assignments. If you can pull off this small task of imagination, then you will know how they feel. WB
408 posted on 01/03/2002 8:29:33 PM PST by WonderBob
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To: OWK
Abraham After Moriah
Genesis 22

Oh, I know You, my Lord. I know Your ways.
You plot, You plan, You deal like some conniving trader of Ur,
You are like old Terah, You are.
You do not lead me out of Haran, a sojourner in new lands,
You do not change names as easy as a man changes his robe,
You do not destroy cities and spare my kin,
You do not keep Sarah barren and Hagar fertile
Until my wife is four score and 11 and I near five score
Without plan and purpose.
And after all those years of unnatural life bringing forth fruit,
You demand that I toss that fruit aside without even it bringing forth seed?

I don't think so.
I'm a rational man, my Lord,
As rational as ever a man who followed a voice can be.
I've dealt with kings and made my bargains,
Consorted with pharaohs and held my own,
I've even argued with You and brought down Your demands.
I know how men think and how they plan and how they scheme.
Gardens are not planted to be barren,
Nor are cities built to be bankrupt,
Nor are kingdoms forged to surrender.
I am in Your image, I know the broad machinery of Your mind,
I know Your long-laid schemes are not for barrenness, bankruptcy, or surrender.
You are too great a Lord, to promise nations and renege.

Do not, my Lord, think me as calculating as You.
You have my worship, my honor, my gratitude, my love,
Even my obedience, for I know You see far more paths
Than a thousand thousand traders could journey,
More choices that a thousand thousand wives face in the market,
And have marked every one to happen or not to happen or yet to be decided.
Here I am, at Your call, my Lord.
You have my trust that You see the hidden ways
Far clearer than I see the road at my feet.
I may be the grandest schemer to come of new Haran,
But I bow before my Master with all respect and awe.

You are as rational as I, my Lord,
And gifted with far more knowledge.
But as I know the ins and outs of God's images, I know You.
You are not a God to fruitlessly waste Your power.
I followed You to know what wonders You had for me,
Knowing that my son was safe.

And if You had not sent Your angel to stay my hand?
I would have stopped my knife a hairsbreadth from My Son's neck,
Tossed my blade aside,
And told you to find some other man to crawl before you.

Copyright 1998,2002 by Charles Lipsig

409 posted on 01/03/2002 8:36:13 PM PST by Celtjew Libertarian
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To: Sabertooth
Poetry alert. 8>)
410 posted on 01/03/2002 8:38:22 PM PST by Celtjew Libertarian
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To: LuvItOrLeaveIt
Ah, a skeptic like myself, I see. In most areas of my life I am just like you. I, however, was raised in faith...and have always accepted that "it's simply the way things are".

Although none here can offer you concrete evidence, if you should decide to pursue the issue...I can give you a hint that always amazes even MY skeptical mind.

There are several books available that tell about very young children's frightening or near-death experiences. The stories are amazing...seeing angels, "nice ladies", relatives they've never known...and many make these claims to people other than their parents initially (so no "outside influence").

Just a thought for you...they, after all, haven't had a chance to be skeptical...yet!:>)

411 posted on 01/03/2002 8:43:16 PM PST by garandgal
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To: Khepera
I know you all didn't hear me. Jim Robinson said No Religious Discussions

Actually, you are wrong. In fact, future changes to the forum will allow for an area where these sorts of things can be discussed, so those interested only in politics can stay in the political forum.

412 posted on 01/03/2002 9:06:01 PM PST by malakhi
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To: Khepera
2002-01-03 12:39:27 Well, I do not want a lot of hot religious debate on FR.

The key word here is 'hot'. Threads that degenerate into denominational squabbles tend to get yanked. There is room for civil discussion of religious differences, particularly if it relates in some way to culture and political philosophy.

413 posted on 01/03/2002 9:10:08 PM PST by malakhi
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
You seem to be in it for the long haul, whereas ArGee gave up trying to answer all the responses long ago. So let me run this by you:

As far as the "parable" goes, I don't understand people who would sit outside the locked door, but I consider myself and other atheists to be more the type that sees the fliers and goes to the stadium only to be told that the banquet will be held "soon." No one knows when. When we ask, we find that the fliers have been posted for 2000 years... so we go find our own food. Personally, I see Christians as folks who've been hanging around looking for free food for a very, very long time. It's their choice, but I don't understand it. Are they THAT desparate for free food?? If so, why? Can't they get their own?

414 posted on 01/03/2002 9:21:54 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
Well, I'm in the middle, as a non-Christian, who believes in God. In Judaism, as I practice it, it is believed a messiah will come at some indeterminate time in the future, hopefully in my life time, probably note. There's a saying I've heard: "If you're planting a tree and someone comes running up to tell you that the messiah has arrived, finish planting the tree. Then go see if it really is the messiah."

So my variant on the parable is, the meal will come, eventually. But for now, I'm willing to cook and/or buy my own meals. In the meantime, there's a really good Cookbook that it's recommended I take recipes from....

And I'm stretching the metaphor.

415 posted on 01/03/2002 9:34:53 PM PST by Celtjew Libertarian
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To: L,TOWM
You forgot to include all the people that hear the advertising for the banquet, and go around telling every one that will listen that it is all nonsense; no one rented the hall, no one is offering a banquet, and all the evidence for the reality of the event is a scam; a myth invented be the frightened hungry people of the city...

This is more realistic than the original. As an atheist, I don't sit around complaining that God is mean. God is even nicer than Santa Claus, but in my opinion, equally nonexistent. If heaven existed, I wouldn't complain about the door being inconvenient. But I see no evidence for the existence of heaven or the banquet. By the way, you just made up the story of the banquet, to help you understand the world better; just like people probably made up heaven.

L, TOWM's revision is more coherent, but you have to add that, just for curiousity, the disbelievers went to the banquet site, but didn't see any banquet. Yet others who believed in the banquet kept disappearing thinking that they were going to the banquet. But they never returned and no one really knew (except by faith) that the banquet ever happened.

416 posted on 01/03/2002 9:39:13 PM PST by Hagrid
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To: the_doc
Today's most popular evangelists represent conversion as being as easy as walking down an aisle and confessing Christ. But they forget that Jesus never represented conversion that way.

I have heard pastors express the view that getting them to make the profession is the important thing..God can finish it later..

417 posted on 01/03/2002 9:40:03 PM PST by RnMomof7
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To: OWK
Men rarely (if ever) manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the manners and morals of a spoiled child.
--Lazarus Long

Excellent point.

Based on my posts (on this thread anyhow) I'll take that as kinda an odd compliment. (I'd draw a smiley thing here, but I hate those things.)

418 posted on 01/03/2002 9:42:42 PM PST by Cogadh na Sith
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To: nmh
It is the NON Chrristian that doesn't understand Christianity and has chosen to REJECT it whether they understand it or not. What buggs NON Christians is the peace of mind that Christians have.

Sorry, that doesn't sound much like peace of mind to me. Such fervent linquistic triumphalism (as in your rhetoric) seems to me more indicative of mental or emotional tumult, or suppressed doubt.

Non Christians also get angry about their final fate, hell.

No, those of us who are theists, or even agnostics, are angry, if at all, about the portrayal of God as a cosmic Hitler. The doctrine of hell is not worrisome or threatening to us, but it is an odious lie, and a sufficient reason (though far from the only one) to conclude that Christianity is a false religion.

Yet, it is a decision they can easily change.

Of course, otherwise one couldn't blame the victim. The Nazis had the same philosophy: the Jews were in the work camps and the death camps because they wanted to be there.

I find most non Christians to be self absorbed and very illogical.

Now that I believe.

419 posted on 01/03/2002 9:45:22 PM PST by Stultis
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To: Anamensis
Good post Anamensis. For an athiest (like myself) the fable makes no sense. Anyone who is at the banquet hall obviously acknowledges the existence of the banquet and the host. Personally, if a banquet appeared, and the host invited me in, I'd go in any door he told me to. But as you pointed out, all we have to go on is a 2000 year old rumor of a banquet. We see many people leave(die), with the fervent belief that they are going to a banquet, but not a single person ever returning with a toothpick in their mouth.
420 posted on 01/03/2002 9:45:26 PM PST by WonderBob
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