You are wrong when you say/imply that non-Christians don't understand Christians. What I said was that Christians don't understand non-Christians.
Where do you want to go and how are you planning to get there?
Shalom.
As many on this Forum know, I am an elderly Jew who is totally satisfied with what Judaism offers. Judaism is much more emphatic about living the proper life here on earth than most other religions. The Ten Commandments are not "suggestions", and their violation is not something easily remediated by confession or "finding God".
Nevertheless, God tells us that in the long run, ALL GOOD MEN GO TO HEAVEN (including those who do not believe as we do).