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What Japanese Women Want: A Western Husband
The Christian Science Monitor ^
| December 6, 2004
| Bennett Richardson
Posted on 12/06/2004 9:12:18 AM PST by MississippiMasterpiece
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To: pbrown
I go with the 'we can still be friends'. The last girl who said "can't we just be friends" to me has been Mrs. Campion for going on 17 years now. She took "no!" for an answer. :-)
781
posted on
12/06/2004 3:43:03 PM PST
by
Campion
To: RosieCotton
You know just how to handle FR gals, don't ya? Well if you say so, who am I to say otherwise. :)
782
posted on
12/06/2004 3:43:30 PM PST
by
Dan from Michigan
("BZZZZZT You are fined one credit for violation of the Verbal Morality Statute")
To: pbrown
Good point. But the effect is the same, so I'm just trying to help both sides save time. :D
783
posted on
12/06/2004 3:44:19 PM PST
by
mbennett203
(To re-elect Bush, dominate congress and to hear the lamentations of the Democrats!)
To: TalonDJ
You have a magic way with words..lol
784
posted on
12/06/2004 3:45:10 PM PST
by
processing please hold
(Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
To: pbrown
Who on Gods green earth does Moore think he's fooling by shaving and putting on a suit? Maybe he wants to go back to his DAVISON (Not Flint) roots....
785
posted on
12/06/2004 3:45:59 PM PST
by
Dan from Michigan
("BZZZZZT You are fined one credit for violation of the Verbal Morality Statute")
To: Campion
I hear ya. My hubby was a blind date. He told me that the second he saw me he knew we would be married. Two weeks later, we were.
It'll be 33 years come January.
786
posted on
12/06/2004 3:47:34 PM PST
by
processing please hold
(Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
To: TalonDJ
Do guys even want or need a female friend? That one question alone is still a mystery to me.
To: Dan from Michigan
Sure. and I wanna be a dim again....not. (sarcasm in that line)
788
posted on
12/06/2004 3:49:25 PM PST
by
processing please hold
(Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
To: Fatalis
"American men have far more options in marrying a foreign spouse than American women do. There is higher foreign demand for American men than women. Why?"You couldn't BE more wrong.
789
posted on
12/06/2004 3:49:43 PM PST
by
Darlin'
("I will not forget this wound to my country." President George W Bush, 20 Sept 2001)
To: pbrown; Campion
Heh...my Dad used a slightly different approach when he proposed. He told Mom "Either you say you'll marry me or I never want to see you again - we can't be just friends."
Apparently it worked. She said yes, and they had been married just shy of 33 years when she passed away.
790
posted on
12/06/2004 3:50:15 PM PST
by
RosieCotton
(He is a very shallow critic who cannot see an eternal rebel in the heart of a conservative. - GKC)
To: najida
Nope, :). Next question.
C'mon, now, I could swear that that's the attitude described by a lot of the women on this particular thread and in modern life in general.
What am I missing?
She say's: 'I have standards for how you must treat me and conduct yourself that are inviolate'. She says: 'My world doesn't revolve around you.'
None of which is unreasonable, BUT, I don't see how what Cogadh na Sith differs from the standard for the modern woman.
To: marajade
I have had some in the past... not recently. Yeah I want a female friend. Just one. For a good long time.
Women seem surprised when a guy tells her he thinks of her 'that way'. What is toe be surprised about? I evaluate every eligible female I mean on a scale of potentiality. I don't know anyway to NOT do that.
792
posted on
12/06/2004 3:53:14 PM PST
by
TalonDJ
(FR really needs a singles thread....)
To: RosieCotton
I'm sorry about your moms death. I don't have any male friends and my husband doesn't have any female friends. It works for us that way.
793
posted on
12/06/2004 3:54:12 PM PST
by
processing please hold
(Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
To: TalonDJ
That's kinda what I thought. Maybe its just one of the differences between the sexes.
To: marajade
I have a few, and to be honest, I'd rather have guy friends. No sexual tension. You can truly be friends.
However, if I were to date someone, I'd probably have to view them as my best friend as well. Wierd paradox.
795
posted on
12/06/2004 3:58:40 PM PST
by
mbennett203
(To re-elect Bush, dominate congress and to hear the lamentations of the Democrats!)
To: TalonDJ
"What is toe be surprised about? I evaluate every eligible female I mean on a scale of potentiality."
Bingo.
796
posted on
12/06/2004 3:59:34 PM PST
by
mbennett203
(To re-elect Bush, dominate congress and to hear the lamentations of the Democrats!)
To: pbrown
Being more than casual friends with someone requires effort of some level. The more you have in common with someone the less real effort it takes. People put out effort to be friends for a reason. With family usually the common blood is enough that very little effort is required. With old friends common history makes the effort also very small. For males the only reason to expend that effort to be friends with a female is the potential. If the woman takes that away then there is no reason to expend that effort anymore.
Does all that sound kinda coldly analytical? It is but it is still true.
797
posted on
12/06/2004 4:00:24 PM PST
by
TalonDJ
(FR really needs a singles thread....)
To: RosieCotton
Sometimes, I think the "let's be friends" line is like a last test. The lady is waiting to see if the man wants her badly enough to kick it aside and sweep her off her feet despite her silly hesitations.
798
posted on
12/06/2004 4:01:38 PM PST
by
Campion
To: mbennett203
Which is all the more reason why guys are hurt by the 'just friends' or the 'but I don't think of you that way'. To a guy that means: 'I considered you and immediately dismissed the possibility when we first met and I have never looked back'. I honestly don't know how it can mean anything different.
799
posted on
12/06/2004 4:03:25 PM PST
by
TalonDJ
(FR really needs a singles thread....)
To: varon
What!No French poodle??? Would you really trust the French poodle with the Chinese cook...? ;-)
800
posted on
12/06/2004 4:03:30 PM PST
by
tortoise
(All these moments lost in time, like tears in the rain.)
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