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To: susiek
I have seven sisters and three brothers. Two of my sisters have decided not to have any children. They are expecting their neices and nephews to look after them when they are old. My kids adore their aunts. So, my sisters will probably have company in their declining years.

I am making no judgements. It is just sad when people are old and have no one to watch after them.

176 posted on 01/03/2005 9:35:17 AM PST by Slyfox
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To: Slyfox
It is just sad when people are old and have no one to watch after them.

That can happen even when folks have children. My husband worked with and developed a friendship with a gentleman twenty years ago. He had two children. After his wife died, the man lived alone and soon could no longer care for himself. My husband cooked every meal he ate, cleaned his house, bought his groceries, literally, did everything for the man.

Eventually, hubby realized he needed full time care, so we placed him in an assisted living facility. His retirement monies paid for half of the expenses, we picked up the remainder. The last few months of his life were spent in a full care nursing home. He no longer recognized my husband and in a short time, died in the nursing home. We never saw his children once prior to his death - and they live in the same town. They did, however, manage to go by the nursing home immediately after the funeral and take the tv, wheelchair, and possessions we had purchased for their father.

237 posted on 01/03/2005 9:56:42 AM PST by Quilla
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