Man...I'd love to hear what some of the posters on this thread have to say about Michelle Malkin and her family situation...
You bring up a good point of discussion. I personally don't know all the specifics of her situation, but I can say that she does fight for Godly values with her time, in addition to being a wife and raising a family. I think there is a big difference between self seeking wives and mothers and ones who work to do God's will. As serving God should be the highest priority in any Godly relationship.
Husband and wife submit together to God's will, not the worldly husband's will, but the husband's will as it is led by God. This is the Godly husband a wife submits to. Thus women choose very carefully. Look for a Godly man. (This in my opinion is why it is an especially heavy role to be a true Godly husband and many men are rightly a bit nervous about carrying out this role rightly. Mistakes can and will be made at times and wives need to be forgiving as well.)
If God gave Michelle a fighting spirit and the great ability to articulate herself to a larger audience then just her family and she submits and asks daily for God's leading, while fulfilling her wifely and motherly duty, she has set a great example for her children and is circling the wagons around God and his values, rather then, shattering His will and vision.
But this is between her husband, herself and God. God didn't make us to be cookie cutter dolls. Not husbands, not wives. He brought them together to do His will. This is the crux of marriage and the piece that most everyone in this day and age misses. JMO. Other thoughts?
She's a successful chick with young child[ren]. Do we know how she treats her husband? She is smart enough to do it all and do it right IMHO!