Lordy, I was not going to engage in this but, you cannot compare a grown woman drinking in a bar to an 11 yr. old riding his bike and getting snatched!
Saying that a child who was kidnapped at 11 had a responsibility to free himself from his tormentor is just plain dumb. You are talking from an adult perspective. I'm sorry you were molested but I gather from what you wrote you WERE NOT kidnapped as well.
Children are not born with personal responsibility, they learn it as they grow up. By the time Shawn was at the age to start taking personal responsibility for his actions his head was already twisted.
THE ONE AND ONLY PERSON IN THIS STORY THAT IS TO BLAME IS THE DISGUSTING PERVERT THAT KIDNAPPED THESE BOYS!
I never said anything about the boy being 11. Where I assign responsibility is at age 15. Big difference between the two. Big difference.
I was not kidnapped in the sense these boys were. I was trapped however because it was the baby sitter doing it. Dissimilar but similar at the same time.
Why scream at me about the blame on the man who did this? You cannot post where I have said anything disagreeing with that.
I can gaurantee you one thing, kids can and do learn personal responsibility prior to age 11. Mine know exactly what it is and what it means because I teach it to them. Why do I teach it to them? Simple, because it is my responsibility to do so. If a parent doesn't do so, isn't that their personal responsibility to be used to hold them to account in the form of blame? You bet it is.
KUDOS !! I AGREE with YOU 100 % panthermom
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There are alot of sick freepers ! One freeper wrote that maybe the kidnapper wanted someone to play video games with & wasn't that bad ( Why that freeper doesn't think they weere sexually molested !!!
THIS SICKO was a 300 Pound SKUM who has kiddie porn on his computer , & on the courtv amber alerts boards one poster heard from sources that Ben Orbey was FOUND CHAINED !!!
Shawn was a skinny 11 year old 5th grader & was the victim of a 300 pound SKUMBAG !
THOSE Who makes EXCUSES For the 300 kidnapper MAKES ME SICK & Should start posting On the DUMMIE BOARD BECAUSE THEY BELONG THEIR with the REST of the DUMMIE IDIOTS !!!