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Dear Washington Post, please stop calling me a "homosexual"
Americablog.com ^ | 7/05/07 | John Aravosis

Posted on 07/06/2007 4:19:18 PM PDT by tuesday afternoon

The Washington Post published a pro-gay editorial today about marriage. And that's great. But they called us "homosexuals" throughout the piece, and that's not great. It's degrading and offensive and archaic.

I've written about this before, and some have disagreed. But I'd argue that those who disagree don't understand the nuance of language or of this particular phrase. Ask any gay person, regardless of whether they agree or disagree that the word "homosexual" is archaic and offensive, whether they use the term "gay" or "homosexual" to described themselves. I.e., "I'm gay" or "I'm a homosexual." Just ask them. Unless they're living under a rock, gay people rarely if ever use the word homosexual. (My gay-friendly straight friends, however, use the term all the time. In the same way that I still hear friends use the word "oriental.")

Why? First, because it's become archaic. Usage changes, and just as Negro and colored changed to black and African-American, just as oriental gave way to Asian, homosexual has become gay. But second, and more importantly, the word homosexual is offensive in the same manner as negro and oriental. Sometimes archaic words sting. In the case of homosexual, I think the main problem is three-fold. First, the clinical nature of the term. It's a scientific word that mildly dehumanizes gay people by suggesting that they have a medical or psychological condition. Second, the words "homo" and "sex." Both words connote something negative, or at least something that shouldn't be spoken out loud, to a lot of Americans. Third, and most importantly, homosexual is the word the religious right uses expressly and uniquely in an effort to dehumanize gays. Anti-gay religious right activists have said publicly that they will not use the word "gay" - rather, they insist on using "homosexual." Why? Because for some reason or another they figure that the word homosexual helps their cause. And while I don't agree with the religious right on many things, their ability to gay-bash swiftly and effectively is unqestioned. If they think the word gay helps us and the word homosexual hurts us, who am I to argue?

Again, I don't mean to opinionated about it, but if you don't hear the negative nuance in the word homosexual, it's either because you're not listening, or more likely, you don't have an ear for language. There's a reason that colored and Negro and oriental weren't offensive terms years ago, yet are today. The nuance of words changes over time. And while gays were once thought to be mentally disturbed - that all changed in 1973 - the language has not changed since that time.

It's time it did.

PS Don't believe me? Read what a communications professional has to say about this. (Actually, I hadn't read his piece until after I wrote mine, but the logic is remarkably similar.) Also, check out this recent editorial in the lead gay newspaper in the US.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: homosexualagenda; mentalillness; wp
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To: tuesday afternoon

I still believe the most appropriate term is “sodomite”.


101 posted on 07/06/2007 5:14:18 PM PDT by Lancey Howard
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To: dighton
Here's a new one on me.

grouse3 /graʊs/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[grous]

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–adjective

Australian Slang. excellent; great; wonderful.

102 posted on 07/06/2007 5:14:46 PM PDT by Paladin2 (Islam is the religion of violins, NOT peas.)
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To: tuesday afternoon
Image hosted by Photobucket.com just call-em a fag... much easier.
103 posted on 07/06/2007 5:15:26 PM PDT by Chode (American Hedonist)
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To: Paladin2
The first (and only) African-American to win the Best Actress Oscar
104 posted on 07/06/2007 5:15:52 PM PDT by Oztrich Boy (The polar icecaps are melting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .on Mars)
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To: Recovering Hermit
I don't think you want to go there either...especially if it's your moon.

The worst part is that when I'm trying for puns I run out so quickly...

105 posted on 07/06/2007 5:16:08 PM PDT by Felis_irritable (Dirty_Felis_Irritable...)
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To: tuesday afternoon
The word gay means happy, carefree. Homosexual means those who prefer to have sexual relations with someone of his or her own sex. The term 'gay' as used by homosexuals is a political term, used mainly by homosexual men. Homosexual women seem to prefer to be called 'lesbian'. Then there are the folks who, I guess, aren't sure what they want; I assume they are the transgendered. That's why when there are clubs and groups for those folks it's named Gay, Lesbian and Transgendered.

I guess this guy doesn't like being called homosexual because it states clearly the type of sexual relations he prefers.

106 posted on 07/06/2007 5:17:47 PM PDT by SuziQ
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To: Man50D; All
Homosexuals do have a psychological problem!

Exactly right. And, only due to political pressure was Homosexuality removed from the DSM by the APA. This manual identifies mental illnesses which are categorizes as such due to the fact that they all appear within the human population at very low percentages; hence they are deemed to fall outside of the normal range of human behavior. Homosexuality was removed from this manual after the pro-homosexual lobby managed to manipulate the population percentages through combining other discrete groups in with homosexuals (i.e., bisexual, transgendered, hermaphroditic individuals) which boosted the percentage up around 10 percent instead of the 1 to 3 percent previously reported (which is much more accurate).

107 posted on 07/06/2007 5:18:36 PM PDT by SoldierDad (Proud Father of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier fighting the terrorists in the Triangle of Death)
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To: scan58

In 1972, the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality, removing it from their list of mental illnesses.


108 posted on 07/06/2007 5:20:04 PM PDT by kalee (The offenses we give, we write in the dust; Those we take, we write in marble. JHuett)
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To: Paladin2
I thought it was fudge packer (often posted with a picture - but I don’t have a copy).

Thankfully so.

109 posted on 07/06/2007 5:21:46 PM PDT by Recovering Hermit (There's another old saying Senator..."Don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining.")
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To: scan58

Whoops I meant to say...

In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality, removing it from their list of mental illnesses.


110 posted on 07/06/2007 5:22:17 PM PDT by kalee (The offenses we give, we write in the dust; Those we take, we write in marble. JHuett)
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To: tuesday afternoon
But they called us "homosexuals" throughout the piece, and that's not great. It's degrading and offensive and archaic.

A skunk is still a skunk even if you prefer to be called a pole-cat........

For the record, I take offense to the term "Gay" because I find nothing happy about homosexuals......

111 posted on 07/06/2007 5:25:27 PM PDT by Hot Tabasco
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To: tuesday afternoon

I guess we’re back to faggot?


112 posted on 07/06/2007 5:26:52 PM PDT by agent_delta ( Who needs an iPhone? I still use my Apple Newton.)
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To: jackibutterfly
Another common meaning of the word gay in the olden days (pre-WWII) was colorful. Songs birds in songs and poetry were referred to as gay. A garden filled full of summer flowers was described as gay. It is thought that during the Edwardian period upperclass homosexual men tended to dress rather more colorfully than their drab heterosexual counterparts. These artistic, flamboyant fellows were referred to as the gays.

Perhaps the word "drab" would be a better alternative word to describe a homesexual. I have never known a person living in the "alternative lifestyle" who did not suffer from serious bouts of anger and depression.

113 posted on 07/06/2007 5:27:15 PM PDT by Irish Queen (Nevada Gal)
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To: tuesday afternoon

Better to call them homos in print, saves ink.


114 posted on 07/06/2007 5:28:19 PM PDT by Rb ver. 2.0 (The Republican party of today is the Whig party of the 1850's.)
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To: tuesday afternoon

A homo by any other name is still a homo.


115 posted on 07/06/2007 5:29:15 PM PDT by derllak
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To: Paladin2

Australian Slang. excellent; great; wonderful.

A new one on me too, but no great shock, considering Aussie recreation.

;-)

116 posted on 07/06/2007 5:30:19 PM PDT by dighton
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To: Paladin2
I had a friend in college who was such. He rode the grants as far as he could.

I had another friend. His parents immigrated to the US in the 60’s from Portugal. Big ranch owners. Pretty wealthy.

He rode the Hispanic grants through college.

117 posted on 07/06/2007 5:34:47 PM PDT by Jet Jaguar
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To: tuesday afternoon
But second, and more importantly, the word homosexual is offensive in the same manner as negro and oriental.

That's true! All are manifestations of a politically correct neurosis. Only a seriously imbalanced person is offended by a straightforward descriptor.

118 posted on 07/06/2007 5:37:01 PM PDT by TigersEye (Hope and fear are two sides of a coin that bind you to worldly concerns. Render it unto the world.)
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To: dighton

Don’t you mean “that” homosexual or are you tell Freepers something we haven’t previously known.


119 posted on 07/06/2007 5:37:06 PM PDT by em2vn
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To: tuesday afternoon

In that case, what about “heterosexual?”


120 posted on 07/06/2007 5:37:11 PM PDT by Brilliant
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