Wow. They kept her for seven years and then decided this wasn’t working? What are they thinking?
All three of my kids were from orphanages. Two were relatively unaffected because they were adopted at 9 mos and 1 year. However, one was pretty closed emotionally, after three years in a state run orphanage.
We never dreamed of giving up on any of them. The one we had the most fears about grew to be a warm, open and talented young man. He’s 17 now and he’s such a joy.