Your poor buddy. Reminds of those poor guys you see in the stores who are carrying all the children, pushing a cart, and their wife yells at them in public for not doing enough. I know a guy who will say he has always wanted to one thing or another, but his wife won’t let him.
Well the cloud in the lining, if one can dare call it that is that they don’t have any children. But he’s such a nice genuine guy and he’s going through all this emotional stuff inching along.
I’m just trying to be supportive. Even with his world being what it is, he says she is “devastated” he’s looking to move ahead alone. Meanwhile she tried to get him out of their home on a verbal separation agreement.
I am walking a delicate line trying to stay out of it. But I told him not to leave his home without a written agreement on their married assets. And then I asked him what he could do if she moved someone in?
My other buddy, well it’s been a couple of years now. I’m glad I was able to help give them some space until they sorted things out. It saved a family and they are doing so much better.
That makes me happy.