[stuartcr]

It’s your estate. Why ask people what to do with it? Do you ask people what to do with your money or other belongings?

[DesertRhino]

Exactly. It’s your money, do what best achieves your goals with it. Nothing is more irritating than adult children who view the parents money, as rightfully belonging to them.

The kids have no standing if she writes a will. If you get a gift from the parents, then you get a gift. What the heck kind of person demands it as a “right”?

[Coldwater Creek]

Sometimes one just needs some input from other people just to get idea's.

All of my children are much better off than I am, but I want to leave them an inheritance. I just don't quite how to go about it. I have a terminal lung illness, and I have to make decisions, and I will take all of the suggestions that I can get.