Which only exists in hindsight. Neither of you were there, know him, know his family or his friends, yet you feel justified in painting the tragedy with the broad brush of your own assumptions. His post was the most multi-faceted disgusting post I have ever read on FR.
The link between machismo and violence is recognized as a significant cultural problem in the latin community.
http://www.libertadlatina.org/crisis_Latin_America_Machismo.htm