[Army Air Corps]

I think there is a huge difference between men and women when it comes to this subject. I don’t think many men “choose” to be homosexual, and few could if they wanted to.

You would be amazed by the behaviours that humans chose to pursue. Behaviours ranging from incest to cannibalism to "cutting." There are humans who choose to engage in a wide variety of unnatural and/or self-destructive behaviours.

[Hugin]

I don’t think anyone just gets up one morning and says “Hey, maybe I’ll try cutting myself today. Sounds like fun!” That kind of self-destructive behavior is more obsesve/compulsive than choice, IMHO. Not that people can’t change, but it’s a battle with themselves to do it.