Try a question in English, please.
You can pretend all you want that standards of individual sexual behavior bear no impact on the society at large and that therefore communities have no business enforcing said standards. It's not true, but go ahead.
This is why people were once "FREE" to set up and enforce social norms according to either religious or cultural preferences. Don't like the rules? Move to a town or State that offers rules to your liking. That way, State behavior was regulated by natural law competition.
Now, thanks to the "enlightened" usurpations of the Federal government we all enjoy (/s) Federally enforced norms pursuant to the fruits of an atheist Cultural Marxism that was specifically intended to destroy Western Culture.
That may be what you want but it isn't what I want. If it is what you want, one wonders what you are doing here.
This is undisputable proof you have jumped the shark in your "arguments." Next!