[Lazamataz]

When you first told me that, during that ugly business in March, I thought you just might be certifiable. In fact, I rolled my eyes. But as it sunk in, I found that I was really and truly free. Nobody gets to live rent free in my head anymore. It was a life changer for me.

Wow. Best payoff ever. Thank you for letting me serve you.

Now that you have this, I have a backstory for you. I didn't tell you then because if you dwell here, it will kill the benefit. But now that you have this, you can be told. Again, WARNING, if you dwell here, the benefit flits away.

That said, here it is: What people say when they are doing the denegration thing, obviously, has nothing to do with you. But it does speak to where THEY are.

It is the second and less important reason why it is none of your business. It really is none of your business!

[BuckeyeTexan]

Yeah, the first half of the lesson definitely needs to sink in before one can grasp the second half. If you had told me that then, it would only have confirmed my indignation. :)

So ... are you going to buy a new car, walk, or ride the bus? Heh. Maybe someone on the bus needs a new perspective ...