And the answer is to not marry, not give her access to your finances, and when they express a desire to exceed your budget, say "No. Don't like it? Door's over there."
sounds like a good plan, thanks
reminds me of-—
“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”
Katharine Hepburn
I had a friend try that (with a lady in Thailand). Guess what? They have hyper-expensive shopping malls with credit cards in Thailand, too
And the answer is to not marry, not give her access to your finances, and when they express a desire to exceed your budget, say “No. Don’t like it? Door’s over there.”
yep . also too many demands ,lies and or manipulations then get rid of them fast