“If I had a BWM like that at his age, Id be fighting the girls off. Evidently he had a creep factor about him that women were able to pick up on, and thus avoided him.”
I think he is an intellectual, introverted personality.
Problem is, the girls he likes are probably extroverted, non intellectual, party girls.
It is more of a mismatch than an inability to get a girl.
He should have tried Asian women, seriously.