Yeah....being a parent of adopted children from the foster care system (and I thank God daily for them) - I also know of a gay couple who also adopted out of the foster care system. The older children (old youth to early teens) were already identified as being gay as well - and as far as being happy - they are not. Alot of issues - alot of bouncing around - and stigma problems more so than the other foster kids that get bounced around.
Being adopted is hard enough - children realizing that they have two completely different parents weighs heavily on their minds. Even those that adopt babies. Although babies become more adjusted quicker if needs are met regularly.
Universally, there should be a strong desire to seek out the opposite sex to continue ones genes - those that go against this or choose not to because that attraction is not there - has to be dealt with on an individual level - and not through some independent study trying to push an agenda on how better gay couples are for adopted children. There are horror stories on both ends...but a universal normal - they are not.
Homosexuals love the Foster Care Program. They use it to {gag} complete their family. My wife and I were FP’s once. The Homo’s we saw in class really were not fit to even raise puppies. Excuse my language but Butch and Dike having kids to keep their house up for them while they eat Bon Bons and watch TV is not parenting.
My wife and I adopted two kids who had been in the foster care system, brother and sister, 8 and 9 years old, when they came to live with us. Plenty of problems alright, they are 14 and 15 now and with professional help we all are dealing with them and do not ever regret adopting them.
Lots of kids available for adoptions, just not so many babies to meet the demand for them. Can’t preach it enough, older kids need love too.