Sayreville football parent reveals sexual nature of alleged locker room hazing ritual (Exclusive)

NJ.com ^ | October 8th, 2014 | Matthew Stanmyre

[Third Person]

It came without warning. It would start with a howling noise from a senior football player at Sayreville War Memorial High School, and then the locker room lights were abruptly shut off. In the darkness, a freshman football player would be pinned to the locker-room floor, his arms and feet held down by multiple upperclassmen. Then, the victim would be lifted to his feet while a finger was forced into his rectum. Sometimes, the same finger was then shoved into the freshman player’s mouth. This disturbing hazing within the storied Sayreville football program, as told to NJ Advance Media on Wednesday by the parent of a player in the program, happened almost every day in the locker room this fall, he said. The allegations — for the first time — provide details to the events that sparked a criminal investigation by local and county police, and prompted the cancellation of the remainder of the Sayreville football season this week by Superintendent of Schools Richard Labbe. The parent, informed by his son and other parents close to the investigation, is the first to come forward to reveal the hazing practices Labbe has characterized as “incidences of harassment, intimidation and bullying as constituted by the definition within the anti-bullying statute that took place on a pervasive level, on a wide-scale level, and at a level in which the players knew, tolerated, and in general accepted.” According to the parent, whose identity is being protected because the parent feared retribution against the family and the player, the routine was initiated when an upperclassman would enter the locker room and make a wolf call or howling noise.

[Henry Hnyellar]

Probably because you view all human interaction sexually. You need help.

[Henry Hnyellar]

Par for the course these days on FR.

[IncPen]

Jerry Sandusky would be so proud...they could go on to be PSU players.

I took off your sarcasm tag.

There's a contingent on FR who– if they're not actually in the employ of Penn State– are doing its bidding in everything they possibly can to impugn the investigators and prosecutors while at the same time trying to rehabilitate everyone at PU except Sandusky.

Utterly. Amazing.

Football over pedophiles and their enablers.

[Balding_Eagle]

I think Spacebar is jealous.

[RichInOC]

Protip: If your freshman-orientation program involves stuff that would sexually arouse Jerry Sandusky, you’re doing it wrong.

[GladesGuru]

The article can be said to contain a classic type description of a new species of Urban Feral.

“Football Of The Corn”, by “Lord Of The Flies”, out of “Woodstock Nation”.

BAH! HUMBUGGERY! !

[butterdezillion]

Charge the perps with not only rape but also bio-warfare.

The whole school should read “The Kite Runner” and get an image of how ugly these hot-shot football players really look. These guys sound just like the Taliban thug in that book.

People get awfully ugly when they believe they are untouchable.

[gusty]

I’m from North Jersey and have been in Sayreville many times, considering that Rt. 9 in that town is one tattoo parlor and go go joint after another, I would say the description is pretty accurate. If anyone wants to get a sense of how Sayreville looks like, watch “The Wrestler.”

[southern rock]

But it could also be a sadistic straight kid who just likes to humiliate smaller, weaker victims, and would do it to a girl as readily as to a boy.

I don't buy it. I don't buy it in prison and don't buy it here. Any man that has any sexual contact with another male is homosexual.

[southern rock]

The appeal of wrestling has always been a mystery to me. I mean, who wants to be grappling with a sweaty, stinky, half-naked male?

Same here. Best left with the ancient Greeks and Romans

[kearnyirish2]

“It’s felony sexual penetration and rape.”

Absolutely.

When I was in high school many years ago a friend described his initiation to the football team; he and another guy had to strip, don goggles, and pee all over each other.

I thought that was gross, but this is a new low (and outright criminal).

[kearnyirish2]

Like most of densely-populated NJ, Sayreville is mixed.

I can’t believe how so many people in NJ focus on HS athletics while so many other things in the state are falling apart. I guess it is a function of our transition from a manufacturing to service to entertainment economy...

[ontap]

When I made that post there were no details about what happened you pompous ass.. you have excellent vision ....two days later!!

[gusty]

I guess it is all in the eye of the beholder. If you are from Northern Bergen County, it is a dump. If you are from Kearny or Harrison then it is mixed.

[wolfman23601]

Did any of you have this kind of schit going on? Funking disgusting and tough to believe. The worst part of our hazing was getting a swirly. Never would anyone want to or try to finger funk anyone in the arse.

[Mrs. Don-o]

Typical sadists, rather. The “typical” homosexual does not commit aggravated assault and battery with forcible penetration on 14-year-olds.

[itsahoot]

Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

Rom 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in [their] knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

Rom 1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

Rom 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,

Rom 1:31 Without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:

Rom 1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

[Mrs. Don-o]

But then you are not proving your point, you are imposing it by definition. “I say the guy is a homosexual because I personally define homosexual that way.” That’s not an argument, it’s a tautology.

[Ultra Sonic 007]

Actually, going by the definition, a homosexual is a man who sexually desires another man (or woman to woman).

Would you object to the notion that a man could have sexual interaction with another man without feeling any hint of sexual desire?

[Mrs. Don-o]

Satan tortures people, too, and he has no hint of sexual desire. Because sexual desire is an embodied thing, whereas Satan is purely spiritual, a bodiless evil spiritual entity. He's in it totally for the cruelty of it, out of hatred for God and His "images and likenesses" here on earth.

With humans, there will be entanglement with the bodily passions; but in that case,it doesn't matter what kind of passions: would the act be worse if it were carried out by a same-sex attracted man, vs one who just gets off on dominance and cruelty?