[DouglasKC]

Guy is a dbag to a girl (ungentlemanly, but most of the time not a crime) and she seeks revenge via conduct board by leveling the charge of a serious crime, but declines to press official charges with police. So the guy gets railroaded out of school and is permanently stigmatized, while the girl doesn’t have to meet real evidentary standards AND doesn’t have the guilt of possibly sending him to jail on her conscience.

I think this is close to the truth. Guy dates a young girl. The young girl is in LOVE. The guy is so nice. This is the one the girl thinks. They have sex. The guy says maybe in not so many words "thanks and have a good life." Girl is devastated. She's given away herself to him and he's used her like dirty Kleenex. It's all consensual, but I bet the woman feels raped. And that's how she justifies it.

[Kackikat]

If the girl said ‘no’ at any point, it is rape, period...even if you think it is jest.
Or if she is underage, or qualifies for the difference in age that makes it statutory rape, as she does not have legal right to say yes....it is rape.