Out of the four people in my immediate growing up family, my brother, myself, and my parents, he is probably the one in least need of counseling.
He’s definitely the most level-headed of us all.
How can you sit here with a straight face and say that a man willingly taking part in sexual acts that can kill him, and others, in ways that are horrible, is level headed?
Have you or he ever visited an AIDS ward and watched a gay person die? At what point does a level headed person make the call that such a death is a fair trade for anal sex?
He may be a very ‘intelligent’ parson in every other aspect of life. He may be a fine person otherwise. But he has a mental illness and you are in denial about it because you love your brother.