Well you have to have time with people to just talk in person, see their behavior, little idiosyncrasies you can’t pick up over face time etc. That time at dinner for instance is used to decide whether you’re with someone of quality or someone who is gonna kill if you get alone with them. So instead of investing tine getting to really know someone you’d rather go through a bunch of losers who ‘like’ your online pic or ask you for nudes on DM.
Nice.
Quality takes time and effort. DUH!
Quality time does take effort. And I would advise the young people to first cultivate friendships with a number of opposite sex associates, and from that pool select someone to pursue an interest in mutual quality time.
But as another poster noted, millenials have a serious ADHD problem, and just don’t want to spend the time on dating. Or anything else but video games, for that matter.
Agree, and you get to see how the other person treats other people (waiters) or handles adversity (a bad meal, wrong order) or whether they have patience (if you have to wait to be seated or for the meal.
You learn a lot.