actually... yes, i do have intimate details of BOTH their lives.... this story is not about “keeping it in your pants”... it is about the way men get hammered by the “Family Courts”... you see the “family” court is not about the children at all... it is about the female in the situation... the United States is the only country in the world that has women that think about the ways to get cash from a man, and they have the courts to help them.... if a pastor in a church can get nailed this way, then ANYBODY can get nailed this way... and you talk about keeping it in your pants... they were living together and she had a child from another man and HE has to pay for it.... only in this country does this happen... ( my brothers ex was certified mentally deficient.. at year 15, my brother asked the court why she can continue to defy court orders and not be thrown in jail.. the judge said “ I will not throw the mother of 3 children in jail”)..... that pretty much sums it up... on a side note, i do hope and pray that you and your spouse live and have a long and fruitful marriage.....
I was addressing the specific case.
I feel other comments are conflating issues.