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Alienated and Intimacy-Starved
The American Conservative ^ | Paul Brian

Posted on 08/13/2018 3:43:48 AM PDT by Yashcheritsiy

Incel: involuntarily celibate. The term entered the popular lexicon when angry, single young men began wreaking havoc under its banner. From school shootings to the recent van attack in Toronto, there’s a rising tide of resentment linked to a lack of romantic and sexual contact among some males. In 2014, Incel pioneer Elliott Rodger dreamed of creating a world where sex was illegal and he forcibly ruled over Chads (dominant, sexually successful young men). Then, in a rampage he killed six people including three women at a sorority house, and killed himself.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: modernism; socialproblems
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1 posted on 08/13/2018 3:43:48 AM PDT by Yashcheritsiy
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To: Yashcheritsiy

Theodore Kaczynski, the Unabomber, is in his mid-seventies, and still as virgin as a mule. Sexual frustration led him to formulate his daft, anti-technology worldview which threw the responsibility for his sad condition onto the shoulders of society, rather than his own lack of social adjustment. A very good study, if you’re interested in this sort of thing.


2 posted on 08/13/2018 3:54:33 AM PDT by Mr Ramsbotham (Laws against sodomy are honored in the breech.)
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To: Mr Ramsbotham

It is a good study. FReepers wail about the low birth rates ,but will laugh at this article. Whistling past the graveyard, I would say. The last paragraph about the gamer guys and the cat ladies is very true. Our culture is dying because of this idea of sexual value vs expectations planted in heads by the culture itself.

Too bad there won’t be scholarly work done on this because the concept makes men the victim and academia cannot support that!


3 posted on 08/13/2018 4:07:05 AM PDT by Bryanw92 (Asking a pro athlete for political advice is like asking a cavalry horse for tactical advice.)
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To: Yashcheritsiy

it is interesting but there have been “loser guys” forever. they did not shoot up the school!


4 posted on 08/13/2018 4:15:12 AM PDT by ronniesgal ( I wonder what his FR handle is??)
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To: Yashcheritsiy
You give women the right to vote, allow them to work outside the home.........

And there it is

5 posted on 08/13/2018 4:17:47 AM PDT by onona (It is often wise to allow a person a graceful path.)
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To: ronniesgal

>>it is interesting but there have been “loser guys” forever. they did not shoot up the school!

But in the past, loser guys still found a loser girl and made loser babies. Now, the loser girl can be sexual promiscuous and, through easy sex, make themselves think that they deserve better than the loser guy when all they’ve really done is turn themselves into a sperm dumpster for those few years where they should be looking for a suitable mate.


6 posted on 08/13/2018 4:21:59 AM PDT by Bryanw92 (Asking a pro athlete for political advice is like asking a cavalry horse for tactical advice.)
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To: Yashcheritsiy

Wonder if there’s any wisdom in men and women waiting until marriage?


7 posted on 08/13/2018 4:26:36 AM PDT by P.O.E. (Pray for America)
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To: Bryanw92

Did the cat lady stuff comes from the incels? More and more on FR, if you disagree with a certain type of male, they call you a “cat lady.” I was bewildered at first (especially since on vacation once I donated money to a Roman gatti lady!)


8 posted on 08/13/2018 4:30:44 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: Bryanw92

Guess you never saw the movie Marty if you think all guys in the past - even losers - found girls, lol.


9 posted on 08/13/2018 4:32:11 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: Yashcheritsiy

The article seems to be based largely on the author’s reading of the fiction of a French novelist. All of the insights and examples he lists go back to these fictional characters and situations. Personally, I never heard of that writer, and the brief description of his point of view contained in the article does not give me any confidence in the validity of his pov.

GIGO


10 posted on 08/13/2018 4:38:33 AM PDT by VietVet
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To: Bryanw92
But in the past, loser guys still found a loser girl and made loser babies. Now, the loser girl can be sexual promiscuous and, through easy sex, make themselves think that they deserve better than the loser guy when all they’ve really done is turn themselves into a sperm dumpster for those few years where they should be looking for a suitable mate.

Alternately, the women can bury themselves in their careers and become cat ladies.

It used to be that women didn't have much of a choice, but to marry the best guy who offered. Now, many choose to stay single and childless, rather than marry the kind of guy who would be willing to make them an offer.

11 posted on 08/13/2018 4:39:37 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("It rubs the rainbow on it's skin or it gets the diversity again!")
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To: onona

No, the pill and tampons


12 posted on 08/13/2018 4:41:17 AM PDT by bert ((K.E. N.P. N.C. +12) Sanctuary is Sedition)
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To: P.O.E.
Wonder if there’s any wisdom in men and women waiting until marriage?

What gave you a crazy idea like that!? /s

13 posted on 08/13/2018 4:44:38 AM PDT by D Rider
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To: onona

A real man is never threatened by a woman’s intelligence, looks, or whatever the weaklings of the world run from!

King James Bible Genesis 5:2
Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.

God created male and female to be one, or he would not have called both Adam! He gave instructions in Corinthians, as male was to lead in marriage, however he did not differentiate in Genesis, as to any superiority otherwise. Both were created in his image.

And men aren’t only ones being taken to financial cleaners. I am NOT on FB, but another site, and was contacted 5 times last week by a scammer or scammers, and I blocked all. Women deal with same issues men do, only more deceptive, while playing on their female need for male companionship.

The word ‘Married’ is foreign to these people, and our society has made this a WAR between men and women!

I can’t speak for liberals/feminists as some still don’t know who they are, or what gender. I know conservative women still want the traditional family and marriage.

https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/sandiego/news/press-releases/fbi-warns-of-online-dating-scams


14 posted on 08/13/2018 4:44:53 AM PDT by Ambrosia (Born in NC, then PA, NY,WV, NM, SC, and FL & back God/Freedom=Priority!)
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To: miss marmelstein
The Cat Lady phenomenon has existed since long before sexually frustrated young men were consolidated into demographic box labeled "incels". The term "incel" cropped up in the early 90s and has only become commonly used very recently. Cat Ladies go back to the medieval period (cats, witches, all that) and the currently recognized version of the trope was firmly in existence by the late 1700s.

So to answer your question -- no, the cat lady stuff didn't come from incels.

15 posted on 08/13/2018 4:44:55 AM PDT by Wyrd bið ful aræd ( Flag burners can go screw -- I'm mighty PROUD of that ragged old flag)
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To: D Rider

Far be it from me to cast the first stone, but I often wonder how my life would have worked out had my generation lived by that.


16 posted on 08/13/2018 4:47:41 AM PDT by P.O.E. (Pray for America)
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To: Wyrd bið ful aræd

Ok; apparently, though, it has been taken up by them. It’s all over the anti-women threads on FR. Disagree with one of them - yep! You’ve got a house of 40 cats, lol.

Of course, in medieval times, cats in general, were thought to be evil somehow. I suppose because of their lack of obvious affection for the human race...


17 posted on 08/13/2018 4:50:07 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein
Guess you never saw the movie Marty if you think all guys in the past - even losers - found girls, lol

I got bored and quit watching halfway through. You're saying he didn't get the girl? If that's the case, I'm glad I didn't watch the whole thing.

18 posted on 08/13/2018 4:52:17 AM PDT by j. earl carter
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To: miss marmelstein

If you have evidence that loser guys did not find loser girls in the past based on a movie?!….

Well I suppose it depends on a definition of a “Loser”. My parents weren’t the great winners in life’s lottery but they found each other and had babies...depending on one’s definition we were lower middle class and even on Public assistance at times(the parents split up). Section 8 housing is evidence that losers do connect and find each other...(whether) they marry or not. Depends on how you define...”loser”.


19 posted on 08/13/2018 4:53:01 AM PDT by mdmathis6 (Men and Devils can't out-"alinsksy" God! He knows where "all the bodies are buried!")
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To: Yashcheritsiy

Well, the bible has told us that there was a special place in the kingdom of heaven for the man who loved God so much that other romances paled.

In the absence of acknowledgment of God, the best such a person can do is love abstractions and philosophy.


20 posted on 08/13/2018 4:53:39 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Tryin' hard to win the No-Bull Prize.)
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