I trust it's not just the way you nudge-nudge wink-wink at the Church's teaching on artificial birth control.
We never talk about it. That's "priest territory." We don't bring it up, and there are no questions on the survey dealing with it.
Lots of these young people are living together. If it were up to me, I'd require that they live apart for six months before their wedding.
But it's not up to me.