Could Mr. Right be white? [Black women choosing white men]

Atlanta Journal-Constitution ^ | 7/13/2

[FreedomPoster]

That jives with personal experience for me. I have a reverse commute on a suburban interstate that moves at around 80. <80 and the cops seem to ignore you; >80 and you're nailed. The guys going 90+ are disproportionally black guys, by my reckoning. Glad to have'em out there leading the charge, shaking the bushes for Smokie.

[newcats]

not allowed to post an opinion thats different- talk about being intolerant

I never said you were not allowed to post your opinion...I was mearly commenting on your choice of words.
Am I not allowed to post my opinion that your term sounded rtather PC?

99%....Hmmmmmm would love to see proof of that. But I won't belabor the point. Believe as you wish.

[illbenice]

I know this may get my posting privs taken away, but what ever. What do white men find attractive in black women? Black women tend to have saggy breasts, they tend to have HUGE butts, they tend to show of what they should not, they tend to have huge lips. I could go on and on, but I want to keep this semi civil. So with out flaming me can you white men who find black women appealing please tell me what you see in black women?

[sonofron]

"99%....Hmmmmmm would love to see proof of that. But I won't belabor the point. Believe as you wish."

ok, lets do some math. i can trace my ancestors directly back to england and austria. so assuming there were one or two non-europeans in the line before immigrating to america, and assume the average span between generations is twenty-five years. these are very reasonable assumptions because there have been few invasions by non-europeans into europe (moors in spain, turks in the balkans, mongolians in russia). That leaves 165 generations in the last 4000 year. if two generations were fully non-european, that leaves 158 generations out of 160, which is 98.75% Accounting for errors in my assumptions, would at worst be 90% european-decent.

[newcats]

Nothing like some good Nordic/Aryan fuzzy math to set my weekend off! Thanx!

[sonofron]

Lol, that's pretty funny, i like that. "Fuzzy math" reminds me of our great president's presidential campaign. oh, are spaniards aryans? i forgot to mention i'm 1/4 spanish. I don't really put much stock in that aryan stuff.

[Bear_in_RoseBear]

What matters most is that your children will grow up in a stable, loving home where values and morals are handed down.

That's the way I see it too. :)

I wish you all the happines and good fortune possible and may God bless you and keep you!

Thank you! Health and happiness to you and yours as well!

[Tired of Taxes]

That being said, I had a conversation with my son the other day on "why doesn't daddy tan". Little brat. Daddy burns, OK?!? He burns and turns red like a lobster...get it?!?

Haha... Laughing at that one. My ancestors were from Italy, and you'd think I'd have inherited that beautiful olive skin tone. But NOOOOO. I had to be the only one in the whole extended family who burns bright red after fifteen minutes in the sun. My kids are so lucky. Haha... They look more like some of my relatives than I do.

[Tired of Taxes]

I'm not in an interracial relationship because i want to be true to my white identity. I know some nice black wemon, but i don't think i'd ever hook up with any of them. I realize i'm unique in wanting to preserve my heritage and history, which includes passing the genes down. Am i a racist for this stance?

I don't think that's racist, just like I don't think it's racist if other people (African-Americans, Chinese Americans, Mexican-Americans, etc.) prefer to marry people who share their ethnic heritage. But, I don't think people should try to force others into having that same opinion by, for example, yelling at "interracial" couples on the street, which is something you obviously don't do.

[newcats]

i can trace my ancestors directly back to england and austria.

Can't get more Aryan than that!

[Wordsmith]

So with out flaming me can you white men who find black women appealing please tell me what you see in black women?

Like Louis Armstrong said, "If you gotta ask you'll never know." :)

Seriously, I'd say you're generalizing. There are certainly attractive and unattractive black women, just like there are attractive and unattractive white women. And every gradation in between. So your "tend to" is rather silly. Does, for example, Naomi Campbell fit your description? Beyonce Knowles? Halle Berry? Angela Bassett?

Even giving your "tend to" some credit, black women also "tend to" be voluptuous and curvy, with less of a tendency to flat hips, butt, and chest than white women. They tend to have a lovely, uniform complexion without pimples and blotches and visible veins. They tend to have much less body hair. For example, my wife has never had to shave her legs.

So don't compare apples and oranges. Compare knockouts with knockouts. Compare attractive black women and attractive white women. You might be surprised.

[stephenfaustin]

The reason these two comments cannot be reconciled is that they come from two seperate women in the article.

[bwteim]

No fair reading carefully.... ;)

[stephenfaustin]

Have you been shopping in your local Wal-Mart, lately? No doubt that your inaccurate description of black women could certainly apply to white women, or anyone else, for that matter! Let intelligence shine, if you please! I could not begin to tell you all the reasons why I find black women to be beautiful. Perhaps for all the reasons you find who you are attracted, to be beautiful. To each their own!

[ChanelEvon]

Thank you for response to this comment. I don't anyone could of replied any better.

[Extremely Extreme Extremist]

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