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School is now just a 'girl thing'
Edmonton Sun ^ | August 4, 2002 | Ted Byfield

Posted on 08/07/2002 8:08:16 AM PDT by pbear8

School is now just a 'girl thing'

By TED BYFIELD -- Edmonton Sun

Now that our liberal educators have spent at least 30 years softening, gentling and generally feminizing the school system, why are we so astonished to discover that boys are opting out of education?

We've gone to extraordinary lengths to assure them that they don't belong there, that unless they change and become more like girls, they aren't wanted. They don't change because, of course, they can't. More and more of them simply quit.

So why be astonished to see that 57% of bachelor's degrees granted by American universities this year went to women - 61% at the University of Calgary while 59% of those receiving graduate degrees were female?

Meanwhile, at the high school level, the male dropout rate soars high above the female, as does the male suicide rate and the male crime rate.

Officialdom is becoming alarmed. Something called the Business Roundtable, an organization of top American executives, has commissioned a study. "We simply can't afford to have half our population not developing the skill sets we are going to need," says a spokeswoman. Research teams are studying the problem from Harvard, the University of Michigan and the United Negro College Fund.

Heaven knows what conclusions they might reach. As with a great many other things, if the obvious explanation offends the politically correct, we aren't likely to hear it, and it certainly does.

The fact is that the elementary schools are run almost entirely by women. The junior highs aren't much different. The male-female teacher ratio in high schools is about 50-50. Why are we surprised to discover that a boy grows up convinced that education is a "girl thing"?

But it goes much deeper than that. At another conference last week, this one in Montreal, a British psychologist and researcher reported that studies show girls tend to fight with their tongues while boys fight with their fists. Thus was educational academe endowed with knowledge that could have been provided by any parent of both girls and boys since the dawn of history, but it's nice to know that our educators are discovering things.

They have yet to discover, however, that certain conclusions follow from this. Since boys are far more physical, their discipline must be more physical too. I taught for 10 years in a boys' school. The first thing you learn there is that for most normal males of a certain age three or four swats with a strap will accomplish more in 30 seconds than six weeks of heart-to-heart "counselling."

One also suspects that the mysterious disease known as ADD, Attention Deficit Disorder, may be caused by a deficit of meaningful direction - meaningful, that is, in the sense of coercive. Over that 10-year stint, I could probably identify 50 boys, all suffering from what today would be called ADD. Every one of them was 'cured' when he found that if he didn't do the assigned work, things would become dreadfully unpleasant.

It is certainly odd that a disease that was absolutely unheard of before the schools were feminized has now become chronic. The favoured treatment is to hop up boys into educational acquiescence with Ritalin, a derivative of cocaine. Drugging children is seen as somehow more humane than spanking them.

Then too, boys easily assume that all the ancient human arts - song and verse in particular - are essentially 'girl things,' which of course is nonsense. But it's very difficult for a female teacher to overcome this bias, and one result is to render all the arts as something 'real men' aren't interested in.

Finally, boys more readily embrace what might be called absolutes. They're far more at home in a world of win-lose, pass-fail, good-bad than in a world of 'feelings' in the modern school.

Fix these things and you'll fix the problem of the opting-out male. But they won't be fixed easily because it means supplanting the whole philosophy of modern education - supplanting it, not with something new, but with something old.

For while what I've said here will appear extremist, radical, even demented to the modern educator, it is in fact the way human beings have been educated for every previous generation. He is the innovator, not I. And insofar as boys are concerned, his innovations are turning out to be catastrophic.


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KEYWORDS: boys; education; educationnews; girls; school
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To: PsyOp
Now, please tell me. A kid gets beat up by a bully. Out of the corner of his eye, while this is going on, he sees a teacher, a group of teachers, or a school security force sitting there doing nothing, as if they are watching a TV program. Tell me please, is he supposed to have any respect for these people? Or does he just look at them with disgust?
41 posted on 08/07/2002 3:31:47 PM PDT by ladylib
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To: ladylib
Maybe he should sue.
42 posted on 08/07/2002 3:38:28 PM PDT by pbear8
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To: TxBec; *Education News
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43 posted on 08/07/2002 3:59:01 PM PDT by Libertarianize the GOP
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To: ladylib
I'm sure he would look at them with disgust. Just as I did. The only thought I had was "If that were my daughter being beat up (and I had one that age in a different middle-school), I would want someone to do something.

I also spent 11 years in the Army where I was taught (or rather had reinforced), the idea that the strong are supposed to protect the weak, not victimize them. I did what was right. The problem is, doing what is right these days often makes you wrong in the eyes of the law.

I'm afraid that when I do get my credential, I will probably end up losing it because of those very convictions.

As a footnote: do you think the girl who butt I saved said "thank you" for taking one on the chin for her sake? One of the teachers commented to me later that what I did was dangerous, because one of them might have had a knife and used it on me.
44 posted on 08/07/2002 4:01:33 PM PDT by PsyOp
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To: pbear8
No. Maybe he/she or his/her parents should just tell school officials (and the press for that matter, maybe that Sean Hannity person who has a radio program on WABC from 3 to 6 ALL OVER THE COUNTRY) what yellow-bellied creeps the school officials are and that he/she is very sorry but he/she can't return to the Lord of the Flies Middle School because the teachers and administrators are gutless crapheads that can't ensure his/her safety. Then check out private schools or the laws on homeschooling in the unfortunate state that the assault took place in. Is that a good idea?
45 posted on 08/07/2002 4:19:36 PM PDT by ladylib
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To: ladylib
Now, please tell me. A kid gets beat up by a bully. Out of the corner of his eye, while this is going on, he sees a teacher, a group of teachers, or a school security force sitting there doing nothing, as if they are watching a TV program. Tell me please, is he supposed to have any respect for these people? Or does he just look at them with disgust?

And people wonder why kids are carrying weapons to school (I did on a regular basis, and that was back in the early '90's).

46 posted on 08/07/2002 7:58:53 PM PDT by adx
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To: ladylib
It's a start!
47 posted on 08/07/2002 11:11:13 PM PDT by pbear8
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To: pbear8
Women teachers, have been more of the rule, rather than the exception, for a VERY long time. Why didn't more boys quit school, in the 1920's or the 1950's ?
48 posted on 08/07/2002 11:14:18 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: PsyOp
The least she and her parents could do was thank you. Doesn't say much for them.
49 posted on 08/08/2002 6:34:41 AM PDT by ladylib
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To: ladylib
Not a dime's worth of difference between them.

We hold these Truths to be self-evident.

50 posted on 08/08/2002 7:15:03 AM PDT by GingisK
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To: nopardons
Women teachers, have been more of the rule, rather than the exception, for a VERY long time. Why didn't more boys quit school, in the 1920's or the 1950's ?

Of course the problem is not women teachers but the insane rules under which they must operate these days.

51 posted on 08/08/2002 9:12:50 AM PDT by pbear8
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To: pbear8
I agree with your statement; however, the author of the aricle blamed some of this mess on the preponderance of women teachers. That's WHY I posted what I did. :-)
52 posted on 08/08/2002 9:39:20 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: A Ruckus of Dogs
amen. the dumbing down of "education" has wrought liberal courses as a requirement (basketweaving 101, creative writing 101; which includes segments on accepting and welcoming homosexual lifestyles)

end result: today's bachelor's degree is an equivalent of a 10th grade education in the 70's.

which in turn hurts women, because they will be expected to have a bachelor's to work the grocery store checkout, whereas, most guys opt out and go to technical schools to earn a decent living.

as a female, the few college courses i took left me asking "where's the beef?" (and this was a SCIENCE major!)

inevitably i had to drop out to actually make money to provide for my family. college was a GIANT yawn and didn't challenge my thinking abilities one bit.

i laugh when the 20-somethings with the 4 year degree get chosen consistently over me in the employment market; this with the full knowledge that i can run rings around any one of them.

53 posted on 08/16/2002 4:46:57 AM PDT by bandlength
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